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kilgoretrout02.bsky.social
@kilgoretrout02.bsky.social
“Retired” social scientist, now SAHM
Dog lover and rescuer
She/her
Proud granddaughter of immigrants
They are the most darling birds, with the tuft and the big eyes. They usually flit in and out so fast it’s difficult to get a good look at their cuteness
December 3, 2025 at 8:33 PM
Older non-parents are no less happy, fulfilled, or content than older parents! So, whether your life is happy or not ultimately does not hinge on whether you chose to have a kid. Hope this helps! 4/4
December 2, 2025 at 4:08 PM
What is most interesting is that it was assumed that the stress that parents experience would end once they became empty-nesters, and then they would be happier and more content when compared to older non-parents. But when this was actually studied, this hypothesis was not supported by the data. 3/4
December 2, 2025 at 4:08 PM
the burden almost solely on the primary caregiver - the mother. Those with children do often express that their lives are more meaningful after children, and score more highly on measures of love. So it should be understood that having children will bring love, but will not bring you happiness. 2/4
December 2, 2025 at 4:08 PM
Sociologist here. Several decades of research have found that women with children score higher on measures of stress, depression, unhappiness, etc. This should surprise no one - raising children is difficult, especially in a nation that nationalizes few supports for working families and places 1/4
December 2, 2025 at 4:08 PM
Are the pancakes ok?
November 30, 2025 at 4:08 PM
Pretty
November 30, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Yes
November 29, 2025 at 3:38 AM
He has a darling face
November 28, 2025 at 2:11 AM
Just because you can read, write and do a little math, doesn't mean that you're entitled to conquer the universe.

Kurt Vonnegut, Hocus Pocus
November 23, 2025 at 3:01 AM
How much I loved elementary school. Had a turbulent home life and school was my sanctuary. The teachers always made it warm and happy and inviting.
November 21, 2025 at 2:05 AM
This is a really great story
November 19, 2025 at 1:25 AM
I believe in you.

I personally gave up making stuffed shells in favor of baked ziti. Because, speed and ease. Same basic ingredients. Less effort.

But I want those shells for you.
November 19, 2025 at 1:20 AM
Are you bragging or embarrassed?
November 18, 2025 at 12:22 AM
My monster. Beautiful, but deadly. Also has the best ears.
November 16, 2025 at 6:23 PM
It’s amazing to me that Bakey is so chill- isn’t he a Jack Russell? I have a Jack Russell mix who could dig a hole to the earth’s mantle in search of prey in the time it takes you to scream.
November 16, 2025 at 6:21 PM
Hate makes you ugly. Look at Stephen Miller
November 15, 2025 at 1:13 PM