Kiki
@kikismusings.bsky.social
MA: Magic and Occult Sciences | Mushie Lover 🍄 | Owned by a cat | Musician | Writer | Student of Nature | ACAB and Free 🇵🇸
I like to think that everyone is more interesting than their labels, then I meet a person who is so invested in their labels, they literally will commit more to their labels than being in authentic community with others. Weird choice, but it was *their choice* and I respectfully bow out
a woman wearing a yellow sweater says whatever i don 't like labels
ALT: a woman wearing a yellow sweater says whatever i don 't like labels
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August 21, 2025 at 2:41 PM
I like to think that everyone is more interesting than their labels, then I meet a person who is so invested in their labels, they literally will commit more to their labels than being in authentic community with others. Weird choice, but it was *their choice* and I respectfully bow out
July 9, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Y’all I don’t know how to say this more clearly…but when your actions are a liability to others, you need to address that and act accordingly. You really do benefit from learning to hold yourself accountable for how your actions or neglect compromise and/or negatively impact those around you.
July 5, 2025 at 1:49 PM
Y’all I don’t know how to say this more clearly…but when your actions are a liability to others, you need to address that and act accordingly. You really do benefit from learning to hold yourself accountable for how your actions or neglect compromise and/or negatively impact those around you.
JK Rowling is a predator and is making public restrooms unsafe for every woman by suggesting people stalk (ie photograph without consent) women in public restrooms. Joanne needs to be accountable for encouraging sexual harassment. Gender essentialism harms cis women as well as our trans sisters
June 24, 2025 at 3:34 PM
JK Rowling is a predator and is making public restrooms unsafe for every woman by suggesting people stalk (ie photograph without consent) women in public restrooms. Joanne needs to be accountable for encouraging sexual harassment. Gender essentialism harms cis women as well as our trans sisters
I pay attention to patterns (I love patterns). If you show me—even once—that you are the kind of person who only values what you can extract from someone, I will absolutely adjust your allowed proximity to me.
June 7, 2025 at 6:32 PM
I pay attention to patterns (I love patterns). If you show me—even once—that you are the kind of person who only values what you can extract from someone, I will absolutely adjust your allowed proximity to me.
May 30, 2025 at 11:54 PM
As a neurodivergent woman in the workplace, I’m frequently told that my matter-of-fact email communication is “emotional” or “emotive” and I really do not understand why people projecting their own emotions onto my writing happens as frequently as it does #autism #workplaceaggressions #misogyny
May 23, 2025 at 1:36 PM
As a neurodivergent woman in the workplace, I’m frequently told that my matter-of-fact email communication is “emotional” or “emotive” and I really do not understand why people projecting their own emotions onto my writing happens as frequently as it does #autism #workplaceaggressions #misogyny
It’s okay to make mistakes. It’s okay to admit you caused harm. Don’t hold yourself to an unattainable standard—no one expects that. It is NOT okay to attack someone’s character when they create a boundary or limit your access to them.
May 23, 2025 at 1:58 AM
It’s okay to make mistakes. It’s okay to admit you caused harm. Don’t hold yourself to an unattainable standard—no one expects that. It is NOT okay to attack someone’s character when they create a boundary or limit your access to them.
Meowdy, Purrdner!
Bb and my first pride in the UK
🩵🩷❤️💜🧡💛💚🩶🤎🖤
Trans Rights Are Human Rights. AND Free Palestine
Bb and my first pride in the UK
🩵🩷❤️💜🧡💛💚🩶🤎🖤
Trans Rights Are Human Rights. AND Free Palestine
May 10, 2025 at 7:57 PM
Meowdy, Purrdner!
Bb and my first pride in the UK
🩵🩷❤️💜🧡💛💚🩶🤎🖤
Trans Rights Are Human Rights. AND Free Palestine
Bb and my first pride in the UK
🩵🩷❤️💜🧡💛💚🩶🤎🖤
Trans Rights Are Human Rights. AND Free Palestine
Do y’all ever look back at the people you dated before you developed self worth and *cringe* with embarrassment? I hold compassion for that version of me, but I also think “girl, really???”
May 10, 2025 at 12:09 AM
Do y’all ever look back at the people you dated before you developed self worth and *cringe* with embarrassment? I hold compassion for that version of me, but I also think “girl, really???”
Hello, this is my cat and he’s a very good bb:
May 3, 2025 at 11:47 PM
Hello, this is my cat and he’s a very good bb:
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Things that WON’T move the needle on FASCISM:
Strong speeches
Congress
Court orders
Negotiating with TRAITORS
The next election
SCOTUS rulings
Things that WILL move the needle on FASCISM:
MASS MOVEMENTS OF THE PEOPLE.
GENERAL STRIKE.
REVOLUTION through INNOVATION by the PEOPLE.
Ya ready?
Strong speeches
Congress
Court orders
Negotiating with TRAITORS
The next election
SCOTUS rulings
Things that WILL move the needle on FASCISM:
MASS MOVEMENTS OF THE PEOPLE.
GENERAL STRIKE.
REVOLUTION through INNOVATION by the PEOPLE.
Ya ready?
May 3, 2025 at 7:42 PM
Things that WON’T move the needle on FASCISM:
Strong speeches
Congress
Court orders
Negotiating with TRAITORS
The next election
SCOTUS rulings
Things that WILL move the needle on FASCISM:
MASS MOVEMENTS OF THE PEOPLE.
GENERAL STRIKE.
REVOLUTION through INNOVATION by the PEOPLE.
Ya ready?
Strong speeches
Congress
Court orders
Negotiating with TRAITORS
The next election
SCOTUS rulings
Things that WILL move the needle on FASCISM:
MASS MOVEMENTS OF THE PEOPLE.
GENERAL STRIKE.
REVOLUTION through INNOVATION by the PEOPLE.
Ya ready?
If you feel peace in their absence, you’ve every right to remove your presence and energy from their life.
May 2, 2025 at 6:04 PM
If you feel peace in their absence, you’ve every right to remove your presence and energy from their life.
As a person with people pleasing tendencies (for which I've done a LOT of internal work), the greatest realization I had was how manipulative people pleasing really is…
April 30, 2025 at 8:18 PM
As a person with people pleasing tendencies (for which I've done a LOT of internal work), the greatest realization I had was how manipulative people pleasing really is…
😮💨 from @everydaysolitude on Insta
April 29, 2025 at 8:50 PM
😮💨 from @everydaysolitude on Insta
A neoliberal LOVES a photo of the Statue of Liberty in some form of incarceration, but will never apply that same criticism to the Democratic Party who have welcomed and abetted fascism through compliance, negotiation (with fascists), and complacency. Be so fr with this.
April 29, 2025 at 5:48 PM
A neoliberal LOVES a photo of the Statue of Liberty in some form of incarceration, but will never apply that same criticism to the Democratic Party who have welcomed and abetted fascism through compliance, negotiation (with fascists), and complacency. Be so fr with this.
Why are white women in particular SO RESISTANT to relational repair and authentic community building? It’s White Supremacy. Y’all are so scared of being seen as anything less than perfect and you are choosing isolation. This rly harms you and benefits your oppressors. #whitewomen #whitesupremacy
April 28, 2025 at 11:02 PM
Why are white women in particular SO RESISTANT to relational repair and authentic community building? It’s White Supremacy. Y’all are so scared of being seen as anything less than perfect and you are choosing isolation. This rly harms you and benefits your oppressors. #whitewomen #whitesupremacy
Amazing how the mask slips off as soon as you remove yourself as their energy source. #covertnarcs #boundaryup #iamkindnotnice #selfprotection #sopredictable
April 2, 2025 at 10:46 AM
Amazing how the mask slips off as soon as you remove yourself as their energy source. #covertnarcs #boundaryup #iamkindnotnice #selfprotection #sopredictable
Reading Hannah Arendt on fascists and the banality of evil: how evil is often not due to malice, but rather “thoughtlessness”, is BLOWING MY MIND RN. I have never been more grateful for my over-active brain and consideration of my actions. It’s a must read #evil #hannaharendt #philosophy
April 1, 2025 at 2:45 PM
Reading Hannah Arendt on fascists and the banality of evil: how evil is often not due to malice, but rather “thoughtlessness”, is BLOWING MY MIND RN. I have never been more grateful for my over-active brain and consideration of my actions. It’s a must read #evil #hannaharendt #philosophy
Sure, people have free will and can choose to not change their behavior while avoiding accountability/relational repair. I then can choose to redirect my energy by distancing from that person in order to protect my emotional space so that person’s actions don’t continue to affect me negatively.
March 31, 2025 at 7:59 PM
Sure, people have free will and can choose to not change their behavior while avoiding accountability/relational repair. I then can choose to redirect my energy by distancing from that person in order to protect my emotional space so that person’s actions don’t continue to affect me negatively.
1/2 My #therapist said something to me that will forever stick with me: “there is a difference between being in relationship to compete vs being in relationship to co-create. This goes for romantic/platonic/friendships/familial…”
March 30, 2025 at 11:48 PM
1/2 My #therapist said something to me that will forever stick with me: “there is a difference between being in relationship to compete vs being in relationship to co-create. This goes for romantic/platonic/friendships/familial…”
If you aren’t alarmed that this hasn’t been widely condemned by all “world leaders”, I question your connection to your own humanity #eyesongaza #freepalestine
March 23, 2025 at 3:39 PM
If you aren’t alarmed that this hasn’t been widely condemned by all “world leaders”, I question your connection to your own humanity #eyesongaza #freepalestine
It’s #autismawarenessmonth and here’s your daily meme to examine and reflect on
March 22, 2025 at 11:46 AM
It’s #autismawarenessmonth and here’s your daily meme to examine and reflect on
