Yeah. All the more reason why I'm thinking it might be best if I just stop sharing all together.

Can't break rules or offend anyone that way.

Yup

I might not say anything most of the time, but it's a joy just reading how obsessed you are with it.

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IKR?!

Honestly, I'm probably going to leave that server because the longer I'm there, the more.. special leniency I see from certain members.

It's not just bsky, though.

I shared the same shot in several different discord servers and was told in three of them that it was NSFW and that it should have been spoilered.

In one, I did raise a stink about it because there was unspoilered porn posted like three posts prior.

Granted, that is true. My problem is that stupid line. If I post something unspoilered because my experience tells me it's SFW, but the majorities deem it NSFW, then I'm only helping them prove their agenda is the right thing to do.

This has never been about anyone else. This has always been about me, my failings, and an effort to understand and be a better person.

Again, this is not to complain about anyone specifically. This is to clarify that if I have a problem or concern related to a particular person, I will deal with it via DM or in the server the server the issue occurred in.

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Every person and every workplace has vastly different standards.

I only have my own experience to work from, and the gpose that started this shit is SFW by my experience.

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Yeah. It's a pain in the ass.

It doesn't help that everyone has a different standard, and the only standard I have to go by is my own experience, which is apparently wrong.

I've apparently had very different work experiences then because that wouldn't have even gotten a second glance in the places I've worked.

I'm just really frustrated with everything right now.

The internet is being torn apart by the same people who buy butt jewelry for cats because they can't bear to see a cat's asshole.

I'm on the verge of just nuking everything and not sharing gposes anymore. Like just keeping everything to myself.

So where the fuck is the line?

I'm about ready to just stop sharing anything altogether because no matter what, I'm getting shit on.

Then, sharing elsewhere, unspoilered because I see nothing wrong with it, gets the reaction of, "It should be spoilered," has me confused.

I thought the line was simple.

Can you see it on network TV, advertising, magazines, etc?

Yes = SFW
No = NSFW

But I'm being told that's wrong.

Someone needs to get off their high-horse. this shit's getting ridiculous.

I can scroll my "Discover" feed and find straight up porn, unflagged, but god forbid you see a dude's nipple or a catoboy's freckled butt.