Kelsey Wonderlin
@kelseywonderlin.bsky.social
Licensed Therapist and Dating Coach for Women 🩷 Recovered anxious girlie helping fellow anxious girlies ✨
Mixed messages are in and of themselves a message. Lack of clarity from him is clarity for you.
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June 24, 2025 at 6:33 PM
Mixed messages are in and of themselves a message. Lack of clarity from him is clarity for you.
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Do you like him, or does he just like you? 👀 #datingcoachforwomen
June 23, 2025 at 3:11 PM
Do you like him, or does he just like you? 👀 #datingcoachforwomen
You don’t have to know why they aren’t texting back to know it’s not working for you.
Stop over-analyzing and decide if it’s working for you.
Stop over-analyzing and decide if it’s working for you.
June 22, 2025 at 2:22 PM
You don’t have to know why they aren’t texting back to know it’s not working for you.
Stop over-analyzing and decide if it’s working for you.
Stop over-analyzing and decide if it’s working for you.
If you’ve seen each other naked, but you can’t talk about the status of your connection, you’re moving too fast.
June 9, 2025 at 10:11 PM
If you’ve seen each other naked, but you can’t talk about the status of your connection, you’re moving too fast.
If a man tells you he “doesn’t want a relationship right now,” believe him. Don’t make it your mission to change his mind. #datingadvice
April 30, 2025 at 2:16 PM
If a man tells you he “doesn’t want a relationship right now,” believe him. Don’t make it your mission to change his mind. #datingadvice
Many secure, loving relationships start with:
“Yeah, I wasn’t sure at first.”
It’s not always fireworks. Sometimes it’s a steady glow that gets brighter with time.
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It’s not always fireworks. Sometimes it’s a steady glow that gets brighter with time.
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April 8, 2025 at 8:13 PM
Many secure, loving relationships start with:
“Yeah, I wasn’t sure at first.”
It’s not always fireworks. Sometimes it’s a steady glow that gets brighter with time.
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It’s not always fireworks. Sometimes it’s a steady glow that gets brighter with time.
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If he calls you “queen” in the first 5 minutes, just know his most-used app is Snapchat.
April 8, 2025 at 4:39 PM
If he calls you “queen” in the first 5 minutes, just know his most-used app is Snapchat.
Immediate sparks are fun.
But safety, emotional maturity, shared values, and laughter over takeout on a random Tuesday?
That’s the good stuff. 🥰👩❤️👨
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But safety, emotional maturity, shared values, and laughter over takeout on a random Tuesday?
That’s the good stuff. 🥰👩❤️👨
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April 1, 2025 at 11:37 PM
Immediate sparks are fun.
But safety, emotional maturity, shared values, and laughter over takeout on a random Tuesday?
That’s the good stuff. 🥰👩❤️👨
#datingadvice
But safety, emotional maturity, shared values, and laughter over takeout on a random Tuesday?
That’s the good stuff. 🥰👩❤️👨
#datingadvice
Be careful not to confuse chemistry with compatibility. Chemistry can spark fast—with someone totally wrong for you.
Compatibility is quiet, but consistent… ✨
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Compatibility is quiet, but consistent… ✨
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March 31, 2025 at 3:28 AM
Be careful not to confuse chemistry with compatibility. Chemistry can spark fast—with someone totally wrong for you.
Compatibility is quiet, but consistent… ✨
#datingadvice
Compatibility is quiet, but consistent… ✨
#datingadvice
Stop “manifesting” your dream man and start rejecting men who waste your time. That’s how you make space for the right one. 🪄
March 25, 2025 at 6:22 PM
Stop “manifesting” your dream man and start rejecting men who waste your time. That’s how you make space for the right one. 🪄
Dating in 2025:
“He lowkey gives me sociopath vibes… but he opened the car door so I’m gonna see where it goes 😍”
Ma’am. Run.
“He lowkey gives me sociopath vibes… but he opened the car door so I’m gonna see where it goes 😍”
Ma’am. Run.
March 21, 2025 at 8:09 PM
Dating in 2025:
“He lowkey gives me sociopath vibes… but he opened the car door so I’m gonna see where it goes 😍”
Ma’am. Run.
“He lowkey gives me sociopath vibes… but he opened the car door so I’m gonna see where it goes 😍”
Ma’am. Run.
If a man calls you ‘wifey material’ on the first date, just know his fridge only has ketchup and baking soda in it.
March 19, 2025 at 4:41 PM
If a man calls you ‘wifey material’ on the first date, just know his fridge only has ketchup and baking soda in it.
Your boundaries are red flag revealers.
Set boundaries EARLY because his response is *literally* the information you need to know in order to spot 🚩🚩🚩
Set boundaries EARLY because his response is *literally* the information you need to know in order to spot 🚩🚩🚩
March 9, 2025 at 7:31 PM
Your boundaries are red flag revealers.
Set boundaries EARLY because his response is *literally* the information you need to know in order to spot 🚩🚩🚩
Set boundaries EARLY because his response is *literally* the information you need to know in order to spot 🚩🚩🚩
Be cautious about how much you focus on the initial spark. An initial spark isn’t required to have a wildly satisfying life partnership. Plenty of happily married couples say their first FEW dates were awkward as hell. #datingadvice
March 3, 2025 at 8:56 PM
Be cautious about how much you focus on the initial spark. An initial spark isn’t required to have a wildly satisfying life partnership. Plenty of happily married couples say their first FEW dates were awkward as hell. #datingadvice
The best relationship of your life starts when you stop clinging to the wrong person. ✨
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March 1, 2025 at 6:40 PM
The best relationship of your life starts when you stop clinging to the wrong person. ✨
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Emotionally available men exist. The problem is that emotionally unavailable women often don’t find them exciting. 🙊
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March 1, 2025 at 1:59 AM
Emotionally available men exist. The problem is that emotionally unavailable women often don’t find them exciting. 🙊
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You cannot end up in a situationship if you do not accept situationshippy behaviors.
Hold your own boundaries, and you’ll attract someone who wants what you do. 😍
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Hold your own boundaries, and you’ll attract someone who wants what you do. 😍
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February 27, 2025 at 1:15 AM
You cannot end up in a situationship if you do not accept situationshippy behaviors.
Hold your own boundaries, and you’ll attract someone who wants what you do. 😍
#datingadvice
Hold your own boundaries, and you’ll attract someone who wants what you do. 😍
#datingadvice
Some of you are in the talking stage for so long, you might as well list it as a part-time job. 🙊
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February 25, 2025 at 1:54 AM
Some of you are in the talking stage for so long, you might as well list it as a part-time job. 🙊
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Want to know if a guy is emotionally mature? Tell him ‘I’m not comfortable with that’ and see how he reacts.
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February 20, 2025 at 8:48 PM
Want to know if a guy is emotionally mature? Tell him ‘I’m not comfortable with that’ and see how he reacts.
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You ever go on a date and realize within 10 minutes that you’re just collecting a funny story for your friends?
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February 19, 2025 at 10:42 PM
You ever go on a date and realize within 10 minutes that you’re just collecting a funny story for your friends?
#datingadvice
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Most women I work with are EXCELLENT at identifying men who are a “non-starter” because they aren’t attracted to him. 🥴
But what they often miss is that men who check all your boxes but don’t want a relationship are just as much of a “non-starter.” 🚩
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But what they often miss is that men who check all your boxes but don’t want a relationship are just as much of a “non-starter.” 🚩
#datingadviceforwomen
February 19, 2025 at 12:21 AM
Most women I work with are EXCELLENT at identifying men who are a “non-starter” because they aren’t attracted to him. 🥴
But what they often miss is that men who check all your boxes but don’t want a relationship are just as much of a “non-starter.” 🚩
#datingadviceforwomen
But what they often miss is that men who check all your boxes but don’t want a relationship are just as much of a “non-starter.” 🚩
#datingadviceforwomen
Every man you let into your life is either moving you closer to your dream relationship or wasting your time. Choose wisely. 👀
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February 12, 2025 at 10:42 PM
Every man you let into your life is either moving you closer to your dream relationship or wasting your time. Choose wisely. 👀
#datingadviceforwomen
#datingadviceforwomen
If he says “let’s just keep it casual and see where this goes,” congratulations—you just unlocked a 6-month situationship with no destination. 🤡
February 11, 2025 at 11:04 PM
If he says “let’s just keep it casual and see where this goes,” congratulations—you just unlocked a 6-month situationship with no destination. 🤡
You’d be surprised how often red flaggy men “tell” on themselves:
“I’m not good at relationships”
“You’re too good for me”
“I don’t wanna hurt you”
Listen and run 🚩🚩🚩🏃♀️
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“I’m not good at relationships”
“You’re too good for me”
“I don’t wanna hurt you”
Listen and run 🚩🚩🚩🏃♀️
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February 10, 2025 at 5:13 PM
You’d be surprised how often red flaggy men “tell” on themselves:
“I’m not good at relationships”
“You’re too good for me”
“I don’t wanna hurt you”
Listen and run 🚩🚩🚩🏃♀️
#datingadviceforwomen
“I’m not good at relationships”
“You’re too good for me”
“I don’t wanna hurt you”
Listen and run 🚩🚩🚩🏃♀️
#datingadviceforwomen
Texting all day is NOT chemistry. It’s customer service. 😅 #datingcoachforwomen
February 8, 2025 at 9:37 PM
Texting all day is NOT chemistry. It’s customer service. 😅 #datingcoachforwomen