Kellan
@kellanbacon.bsky.social
🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 Transmasc, neurodivergent, transracial adoptee. I help fellow queer peeps and adoptees embody healing, joy, and connection through somatics and root cause therapy (IICT).
INFJ, enneagram 4, 2/4 Projector.
INFJ, enneagram 4, 2/4 Projector.
But love exists in many forms, all of which are just as sacred and important in our lives.
Plantonic love / queer platonic love represent something far more important to me.
(Plus not everyone needs/is attracted to sex or romance in the first place)
Plantonic love / queer platonic love represent something far more important to me.
(Plus not everyone needs/is attracted to sex or romance in the first place)
February 16, 2025 at 10:31 AM
But love exists in many forms, all of which are just as sacred and important in our lives.
Plantonic love / queer platonic love represent something far more important to me.
(Plus not everyone needs/is attracted to sex or romance in the first place)
Plantonic love / queer platonic love represent something far more important to me.
(Plus not everyone needs/is attracted to sex or romance in the first place)
But I’m here now. Appreciating that is far better for me than making a checklist of everything I’ve still got to heal.
February 1, 2025 at 11:22 AM
But I’m here now. Appreciating that is far better for me than making a checklist of everything I’ve still got to heal.
Moved out from my parents, let go of placing my worth in academia, left my comfort zone countless times, found QTIPOC community, got naked a lot 😂 and built a practice where I find purpose and get to work with my ideal clients.
Sometimes I lose sight of all that in my pursuit to better myself.
Sometimes I lose sight of all that in my pursuit to better myself.
February 1, 2025 at 11:22 AM
Moved out from my parents, let go of placing my worth in academia, left my comfort zone countless times, found QTIPOC community, got naked a lot 😂 and built a practice where I find purpose and get to work with my ideal clients.
Sometimes I lose sight of all that in my pursuit to better myself.
Sometimes I lose sight of all that in my pursuit to better myself.
Love the timing of this. Welcoming you on this new cycle!🙏🏽
February 1, 2025 at 11:12 AM
Love the timing of this. Welcoming you on this new cycle!🙏🏽
Sometimes I find myself pushing deeper into emotional wounds or digging into trauma in an attempt to resolve this boredom.
Our challenge is to create safety for our nervous systems to trust that boredom is not in fact a threat, and is actually more the absence of overwhelm. (Which can be nice😅)
Our challenge is to create safety for our nervous systems to trust that boredom is not in fact a threat, and is actually more the absence of overwhelm. (Which can be nice😅)
January 29, 2025 at 1:19 PM
Sometimes I find myself pushing deeper into emotional wounds or digging into trauma in an attempt to resolve this boredom.
Our challenge is to create safety for our nervous systems to trust that boredom is not in fact a threat, and is actually more the absence of overwhelm. (Which can be nice😅)
Our challenge is to create safety for our nervous systems to trust that boredom is not in fact a threat, and is actually more the absence of overwhelm. (Which can be nice😅)
January 26, 2025 at 4:18 PM
It’s great that I can be that for myself and others now… but the rage and pain still needed to be felt.
January 26, 2025 at 4:17 PM
It’s great that I can be that for myself and others now… but the rage and pain still needed to be felt.
The best thing we can do is to fully acknowledge whats going on in our system. Sometimes that involves going into the feelings. Sometimes that involves healthy distraction and distancing. But denying whats there is not only dysregulating but a fast track to chronic pain and health issues.
January 22, 2025 at 3:26 PM
The best thing we can do is to fully acknowledge whats going on in our system. Sometimes that involves going into the feelings. Sometimes that involves healthy distraction and distancing. But denying whats there is not only dysregulating but a fast track to chronic pain and health issues.
January 17, 2025 at 7:55 PM
Community is the future!!!🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🙌🙌
January 16, 2025 at 2:43 PM
Community is the future!!!🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🙌🙌
Happens to me every time😂
January 16, 2025 at 2:38 PM
Happens to me every time😂
I’m still learning what love that isn’t transactional looks and feels like.
#adoption #partstherapy #caretaker #codependency #attatchementtrauma
#adoption #partstherapy #caretaker #codependency #attatchementtrauma
January 14, 2025 at 4:48 PM
I’m still learning what love that isn’t transactional looks and feels like.
#adoption #partstherapy #caretaker #codependency #attatchementtrauma
#adoption #partstherapy #caretaker #codependency #attatchementtrauma
Learning that love is not transactional is a challenge adoptees especially face. We were literally bought and designated the purpose of filling the unfillable hole in our adoptive parents lives…>>
January 14, 2025 at 4:48 PM
Learning that love is not transactional is a challenge adoptees especially face. We were literally bought and designated the purpose of filling the unfillable hole in our adoptive parents lives…>>