I agree there are levels, but why do you think it’s worse to cheat on a spouse? Either way you’re betraying someone’s trust if it’s a committed relationship. Just curious as I’ve heard this take before.

I don’t necessarily care that he’s unemployed and lives with his parents - sometimes people fall on hard times. But the whining and self-deprecation is such an ick, she can definitely do better than that.

He sleeps with the hat on??