Aaah! I’m so nervous!!!!!

Absofuckinglutely not. NO. no. no. I am SO, SO,SO sorry she's not backing you up. If you need to talk I am here. I also had a shitty mom downplaying so I get it. It's possible she experienced trauma and this is a coping mechanism too *a shitty one, obvs*

Nope, nope nope, ALL the red flags. Abusers do this so they can later say "Oh well your parent seemed fine with it"

Let me give you a daughter

Me to Gus

Perfection