He does say “please”.

Everyone has deserted us.

Nonprofit.

I’m going to follow. And inside I’ll be arguing. But I’m going to listen because “the definition of insanity” and all that.

*goes back to bed*

Red Book is going to be the only thing that gets me through the next four years.
And therapy.
And Bluesky.
And my wife.

People are following me after a comment I made on a post and inside I am screaming WHY??? It’s so sad. Even sadder is finding accounts I would have loved to follow but now can’t because… WHY???

Thank you for your sincere kindness. It does mean a lot.

“But someone wanted you and chose you!” As if that diminishes the fact that maybe someone did not. Or even that that pardons those who adopted you from any wrong doing.

3) I was given some information from the agency I was adopted through which allowed me to find birth family. It matters to me how I came to be adopted. It matters to me if my mom was fit or deemed unfit to keep
me. It matters.

2) It has been brought to my attention that maybe my mother was unfit and I was taken from her. That changes how I feel about her significantly. Was I wanted but taken away or unwanted and given away. Those are my questions. Also - I was in foster care for 3.5 years and then was adopted.

1) I can see why this is confusing. I have met my biological siblings, aunts and grandparent, my biological parents passed away and I never had the chance to meet them. So I was told my bio mom said I had died. I always assumed this meant she gave me up for adoption.

That would be great! Ah yes - the hashtag!

I find myself quoting this movie A LOT!