Yes we have a yardstick and run it under the uncommon to move furniture to see what we discover. Mostly recovering cat toys and at one point a random potato Which was probably used as a do it yourself cat toy.

There is a quote from a book I read. "Good is good, and evil is evil. Work with the good and resist the evil. Forget the naming of deity names."

Which one of us was the extrovert that day?

Congratulations!

You are not stupid. It can be hard to let go of friends.