K-ghislaine
@k-ghislaine.bsky.social
A lifelong explorer of relationship diversity. Why? Because love is love. Sex positive writer and content creator, who posts random thoughts, and at times some thought provoking ones too.
Wicked for Good was amazing!
December 3, 2025 at 5:24 AM
Wicked for Good was amazing!
Reading the misinformation about orgasms, and male performance issues, it's not wonder this is one of my most searched articles, medium.com/@ghislaine99.... It might be time to work out a piece just on orgasms in general because there are a lot of questions!!!
Performance Anxiety in Non-Monogamy
It is no secret that being non-monogamous comes with its own sexual challenges. Whether you are a swinger, polyamorous, or in an open…
medium.com
December 2, 2025 at 3:22 PM
Reading the misinformation about orgasms, and male performance issues, it's not wonder this is one of my most searched articles, medium.com/@ghislaine99.... It might be time to work out a piece just on orgasms in general because there are a lot of questions!!!
Job hunting in today's market is just as painful as dating. Everything went so well, you felt a spark, got really excited about the opportunity in the interview and then...crickets! Not even a thanks but no thanks response to a follow-up email. Ugh!
December 1, 2025 at 10:30 PM
Job hunting in today's market is just as painful as dating. Everything went so well, you felt a spark, got really excited about the opportunity in the interview and then...crickets! Not even a thanks but no thanks response to a follow-up email. Ugh!
Swinging got brought up at a friends place on Saturday night. Unfortunately it opened with so and so broke up because of swinging. Response "how do you even cheat when you're swingers ". Cue obnoxious and rude laughter. I may have lost my temper just a wee bit in that moment. Will stigma ever end?
December 1, 2025 at 5:59 PM
Swinging got brought up at a friends place on Saturday night. Unfortunately it opened with so and so broke up because of swinging. Response "how do you even cheat when you're swingers ". Cue obnoxious and rude laughter. I may have lost my temper just a wee bit in that moment. Will stigma ever end?
Down with the Halloween and up with the Christmas decor!!!
November 30, 2025 at 5:59 PM
Down with the Halloween and up with the Christmas decor!!!
Wearing a snowsuit to walk the dogs means no one knows I'm in my pj's, still not wearing a bra! Tee hee!!!
November 28, 2025 at 8:10 PM
Wearing a snowsuit to walk the dogs means no one knows I'm in my pj's, still not wearing a bra! Tee hee!!!
Oh fresh fallen snow. So beautiful knowing I get to remain inside today! Happy Friday all!!!
November 28, 2025 at 4:29 PM
Oh fresh fallen snow. So beautiful knowing I get to remain inside today! Happy Friday all!!!
Since I lost my job over the summer I have done zero writing at pubs. Everything has been at home. Today, I am treating myself to a little in the wild, so to speak, writing. Look at me, doing all the treating instead of beating myself up for feeling rough!
November 27, 2025 at 7:56 PM
Since I lost my job over the summer I have done zero writing at pubs. Everything has been at home. Today, I am treating myself to a little in the wild, so to speak, writing. Look at me, doing all the treating instead of beating myself up for feeling rough!
Today I decided to treat myself to a bottle of wine. I rarely keep it in the house, but decided I deserved it. Now, to hit my word target so I can actually open it and enjoy it!
November 26, 2025 at 11:14 PM
Today I decided to treat myself to a bottle of wine. I rarely keep it in the house, but decided I deserved it. Now, to hit my word target so I can actually open it and enjoy it!
Good Morning all! What little thing will make you smile today? Or maybe it's a big thing. For me, it's just knowing that I am trying to refocus all the rejection thoughts into ones of "it is what it is and that's ok". It's not much, but it helps.
November 26, 2025 at 4:25 PM
Good Morning all! What little thing will make you smile today? Or maybe it's a big thing. For me, it's just knowing that I am trying to refocus all the rejection thoughts into ones of "it is what it is and that's ok". It's not much, but it helps.
Virtual date nights just don't feel the same. Thank goodness I have my reliable buzzing companion to keep me warm tonight.
November 26, 2025 at 5:03 AM
Virtual date nights just don't feel the same. Thank goodness I have my reliable buzzing companion to keep me warm tonight.
Deep breath, more rejection and disappointment. It's ok. I can handle this, I'm just going to be sad for a little while. Maybe just tonight, maybe a little tomorrow. Time will tell.
November 25, 2025 at 12:40 AM
Deep breath, more rejection and disappointment. It's ok. I can handle this, I'm just going to be sad for a little while. Maybe just tonight, maybe a little tomorrow. Time will tell.
For the past few months we have had a minivan park, blocking my bf's work truck for a few hours at a time. At first, we figured that they just didn't see our truck. Then it became more frequent and we would be blocked in for longer and longer times. Here's the thing, we don't live in a great
November 24, 2025 at 7:46 PM
For the past few months we have had a minivan park, blocking my bf's work truck for a few hours at a time. At first, we figured that they just didn't see our truck. Then it became more frequent and we would be blocked in for longer and longer times. Here's the thing, we don't live in a great
I am very proud of myself for saying no to going out for beers because I hadn't yet finished my to-do list. However, it has been 30 minutes and I still have not finished. Clearly I should have said F it and gone for beers.
November 21, 2025 at 9:35 PM
I am very proud of myself for saying no to going out for beers because I hadn't yet finished my to-do list. However, it has been 30 minutes and I still have not finished. Clearly I should have said F it and gone for beers.
I just had a thought... one step at a time. Then I grinned because NOPE that is not my life. Throw all the balls into the air at once and see if you can catch any.
November 20, 2025 at 4:27 PM
I just had a thought... one step at a time. Then I grinned because NOPE that is not my life. Throw all the balls into the air at once and see if you can catch any.
I'm baffled by those giving the advice of talking to ChatGPT instead of a therapist! I know it's free, but hot damn, talking to AI about trauma and serious relationship advice is not what we should be encouraging. And let's not even think about what these conversations are teaching the AI machine.
November 19, 2025 at 4:55 PM
I'm baffled by those giving the advice of talking to ChatGPT instead of a therapist! I know it's free, but hot damn, talking to AI about trauma and serious relationship advice is not what we should be encouraging. And let's not even think about what these conversations are teaching the AI machine.
I had to almost force myself to write today. Thankfully the ritual I created for days like this actually worked! Light a candle, switch the music, and have a full glass of water. It worked, and words were strung together.
November 17, 2025 at 11:08 PM
I had to almost force myself to write today. Thankfully the ritual I created for days like this actually worked! Light a candle, switch the music, and have a full glass of water. It worked, and words were strung together.
Ran away to recharge in the mountains! We saw a waterfall in November! Just breathtaking beauty. Happy Sunday everyone.
November 17, 2025 at 12:44 AM
Ran away to recharge in the mountains! We saw a waterfall in November! Just breathtaking beauty. Happy Sunday everyone.
Good morning! Saturday's are for board games, beer, and sexy naps!
November 15, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Good morning! Saturday's are for board games, beer, and sexy naps!
Made a silly mistake ending an email with, please don't rush to respond as I know how busy you are. I didn't mean it. Rush...please!!!
November 15, 2025 at 2:08 AM
Made a silly mistake ending an email with, please don't rush to respond as I know how busy you are. I didn't mean it. Rush...please!!!
I keep seeing posts about accounts getting removed or silenced and each time the account has said something horrible. Yes, there are horrible people and they need to be called out, but not with name calling and profanity. Trolls have tried that for over a decade and nothing has improved.
November 14, 2025 at 5:54 PM
I keep seeing posts about accounts getting removed or silenced and each time the account has said something horrible. Yes, there are horrible people and they need to be called out, but not with name calling and profanity. Trolls have tried that for over a decade and nothing has improved.
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