Ha! You’ll find one that works, just takes some trial and error. Just a word of advice, the cheaper ones suck, especially if you plan on spending any significant time in it. So I would only use them to find around what size you need and are comfortable in then go for a nicer one like kink3D.com

They make different kinds of base rings. Some for people with bigger balls, others for people with smaller ones. You should get one for what you need so your balls don’t slip out, and that should be enough to hold it on.

It will go out a bit when you are hard though but shouldn’t allow you to get fully hard

The cage itself might be too small. It should be about the length of your flaccid dick. Measure a few times soft and get the average of those and then get a cage length close to that size (smaller if you want, but for beginners around the size is usually best for comfort).

If the base ring is too tight I can see it causing more of a pressure buildup since the blood can’t flow into your dick.

A good rule of thumb is with the cage on, you should be able to slide one finger comfortably in under the base ring still, if not it’s too tight.

No. Not at all. Hurt how?

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