It's good to know that this goes both ways. I know assessment feedback is there to help, but it's also a dreadful reminder that my marker spent time thinking about me and my work.

there was this brief window where the other liberals had me convinced about the virtues of being nice and not calling other people stupid etc. unfortunately people really are so stupid that i started to feel like i was gaslighting myself by not saying it.

This can't be real.

Congratulations, it's a riveting (and infuriating!) book, and you earned its win!