Yeah -- Even now, every new procedure I hear/learn about reopens a question that has legit delayed my decision making around what surgeries I might be interested in. Am I chasing after something because it'll make ME feel better or because it feels like 'the thing you do' as a trans woman? Rough.

- (+10%) Chance to hear "Oh Thanks! They're press-ons from Ulta, only like 10 bucks!"
- (+50%) Chance to receive a free drink assuming I'm already at least 1 drink in
- (+2) to how you were feeling about your outfit that day
- Permanently equip one additional subscriber/follower to your art

fuck yes

Kinda melancholy, kinda beautiful to be at a spot to wonder what your kid self would be wishing for now. I'd never framed it that way for myself before.

Every time I think about my kid self meeting me and whether he'd like me -- makes me wanna cry, I never get very far with it.

That fifth dog tho is gonna be immaculate.

Jessie or Lizzie! I'm like 99% settled on Josie but sometimes I wonder if Lizzie would have gotten better at skateboarding than me

I really love this. We did something similar for our cat Milo two years ago. I'm struggling tonight knowing that we'll be doing the same with her younger sister, Chloe, after saying goodbye tomorrow. I feel like I've forgotten the soft ritual of having a small shrine, thank you for the reminder. 💜

That's tough. I hesitate to tell an artist what to do with their art or how to make it accessible, especially if its part of their livelihood. I feel like its up to y'all. I do agree with another reply, make sure it's visible/pushed that it's in multiple places, especially if you have preferred ones

I really enjoyed Double Exposure, like you said it felt very much a continuation of LiS in style, vibe, and earnestness to the point of cringe.. Which is kinda what I wanted from Max's story? I was really surprised by the reaction after release, it felt like they were seeing something I just couldnt

Uh. I hate that. 😬

Here's hoping that if things do change, your community is not gone, it's just different. Different can still can be worth grieving over, for sure, not saying it isn't. But our relationships and behaviors within them change all the time, it's usually slow tho so feels less scary as it happens.

Whoa, never heard of this. Thanks for the rec

Shit i feel like this just gave me new brainworms I didn't need.

I'm sorry, that's just so incredibly shitty

I feel like I hear so much variation on this I have no idea what the truth is anymore. I started HRT at 32 years old so I never expected much -- and I'm four years in so I guess I'm at the end of changes? But then I also hear folks being like "I'm different now 10 years on HRT compared to 5" so 🤷‍♀️