Here's how my sister inspired me to aim higher for 2025 👯‍♀️ When I was a product manager at Stripe, we set joint OKRs to keep teams aligned on shared outcomes. Why not apply this to personal goals?

Dating in SF 🌁 vs. NY 🗽

We've heard people question SF’s dating scene and move to NYC. We've also seen folks move to SF to focus on their tech career *and* dating - I just talked to a friend on Friday who's doing so.

Last Friday, I joined Erik Torenberg (On Deck & Turpentine founder) for my first-ever podcast interview. Erik was incredibly kind and supportive as we discussed my hottest dating takes and how I coach clients to navigate modern relationships.

This Hinge opener led to a relationship 👇

Too often, I’ve seen clients send openers like:

“I like travel too!”
“Hey! How was your weekend?”
Or, worst of all, just a like without a comment 😵

These don’t get you noticed by the right people.

Are Dating Coaches Legit? 🤔

My MIT classmate (and reality TV star) Nick shared on TikTok:

“At first, I was just curious. But after talking to her, I thought—wait, she seems legit and could give good advice. Now, I want to be a client, but she’s already fully booked!”