Sending you well wishes, strength and love! Cancer sucks and I'm glad/hoping you're getting amazing treatment ❤️

So worst my "happened to me": before there was Google Drive/dropbox, et al, I constantly 'ctrl-s'ed. I also had v4final, v4a.sent etc AND believed I was unlucky with tech, so had 3 backups. File, HDD1, ext hdd2, ext hdd3. I had the great luck that all my WD drives died in succession within 2 days🤦🏽‍♀️

Just an fyi, and you may already know, but it's a good idea to be mindful with sugar free gummies as they tend to have a laxative effect. I recently shared a hilarious Amazon review with someone who had the same idea. www.amazon.com/review/R2JGN... Added a preview for ya - recommended reading 🙈

them and their fragility. Especially interesting in this specific context, that these same folks are almost kinda "hallucinating"/inferring things, based on a few sentences & examples. Sad how they spew bs & sit angrily in irony, ignorance and hypocrisy.
The talk is so engaging & interesting!

This is an amazing review - it definitely sold it to me.
Getting it now!

If folks don't feel safe (esp en masse as we're seeing here) then stuff is broken & ain't working and we need to work on fixing it right now. That may mean reaching out to others more experienced so we can gather more knowledge, collaborate, learn + take action to improve - transparency helps here.

Look at patterns of behavior as well as make sure our Code of Conduct and community expectations are broad enough to protect the folks most vulnerable to abuse and harm.
Did the mods give them a warning? Did they mention that action was taken, and why, to set an example for the community to follow?

I understand that sometimes we need to look at things on a case by case basis, because subtleties and context are generally important.
But bad actors tend to know how to toe the line to continue to be harmful in a way where "Technically" they aren't breaking rules.
This is why we try to (cont'd)

I'm also always confused on what to call them. I know them as "potlickers" from Dutch - but that could be a regional thing as I'm from Suriname and not the Netherlands.

Mygosh Andrew
Your skeet famoud

I want white ppl who I am interacting with to understand if you shove racism and reminder of antiblackness to me:

I’m taking it as intentional harm. I’m also taking it as you are new to allyship cause you aren’t thinking of the wellbeing of marginalized people

Had the same in MIA and some actually yelling "Uber?" Or "Lyft?" at me. It was unsettling - I asked my actual driver about it and it seems that some are using (fake?) accounts and accepting but not picking up ppl, and then drive others and getting paid "under the table". Idk how it works or if true