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You are supposed to be triggered when someone mistreats, lies to, or disrespects you. You can heal to lessen the intensity of that trigger, but having a reaction to poor treatment means your body is alive, alert, and reminding you that you deserve better.
January 19, 2026 at 2:31 PM
You are supposed to be triggered when someone mistreats, lies to, or disrespects you. You can heal to lessen the intensity of that trigger, but having a reaction to poor treatment means your body is alive, alert, and reminding you that you deserve better.
instead of 'good morning' my phone wanted to text 'good girl' - I like that.
December 19, 2025 at 3:35 AM
instead of 'good morning' my phone wanted to text 'good girl' - I like that.
two women sitting opposite to me are holdings hands, I'm smiling like crazy. 🥰
love those little moments.
love those little moments.
December 11, 2025 at 4:32 PM
two women sitting opposite to me are holdings hands, I'm smiling like crazy. 🥰
love those little moments.
love those little moments.
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“You’re still hurt by that? That was a long time ago!”
Not to a nervous system. Abusive behavior puts a brain on constant alert to send warning so it doesn’t happen again. It was a long time ago for the perpetrators, but survivors remember & experience it like it was yesterday.
Not to a nervous system. Abusive behavior puts a brain on constant alert to send warning so it doesn’t happen again. It was a long time ago for the perpetrators, but survivors remember & experience it like it was yesterday.
December 8, 2025 at 7:25 PM
“You’re still hurt by that? That was a long time ago!”
Not to a nervous system. Abusive behavior puts a brain on constant alert to send warning so it doesn’t happen again. It was a long time ago for the perpetrators, but survivors remember & experience it like it was yesterday.
Not to a nervous system. Abusive behavior puts a brain on constant alert to send warning so it doesn’t happen again. It was a long time ago for the perpetrators, but survivors remember & experience it like it was yesterday.
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To understand the life of a person with cPTSD, is to understand they’ve experienced multiple traumas and after each one, people taught them how to adapt to that pain, rather than making the traumas stop.
December 6, 2025 at 1:03 AM
To understand the life of a person with cPTSD, is to understand they’ve experienced multiple traumas and after each one, people taught them how to adapt to that pain, rather than making the traumas stop.
I'm trying to sleep.
which obviously means I'm reading articles about leaving the country and learning another language.
this time, it's Iceland
which obviously means I'm reading articles about leaving the country and learning another language.
this time, it's Iceland
December 5, 2025 at 11:35 PM
I'm trying to sleep.
which obviously means I'm reading articles about leaving the country and learning another language.
this time, it's Iceland
which obviously means I'm reading articles about leaving the country and learning another language.
this time, it's Iceland
I had to deal with an insane amount of anger today.
Now I'm contemplating how pissed off I should still be tomorrow.
(like I said, insane)
Now I'm contemplating how pissed off I should still be tomorrow.
(like I said, insane)
November 4, 2025 at 9:18 PM
I had to deal with an insane amount of anger today.
Now I'm contemplating how pissed off I should still be tomorrow.
(like I said, insane)
Now I'm contemplating how pissed off I should still be tomorrow.
(like I said, insane)
Baby No 2
please welcome
Dwaekki 🩷
He hatched yesterday, November 1st, and is the cutest little baby.
please welcome
Dwaekki 🩷
He hatched yesterday, November 1st, and is the cutest little baby.
November 2, 2025 at 9:08 AM
Baby No 2
please welcome
Dwaekki 🩷
He hatched yesterday, November 1st, and is the cutest little baby.
please welcome
Dwaekki 🩷
He hatched yesterday, November 1st, and is the cutest little baby.
I lost this pin today.
absolute intense, unhinged emotional reaction for today, check.
absolute intense, unhinged emotional reaction for today, check.
best 'I know I should be sleeping, but I already clicked add to cart' decision I've ever made.
#HeteroWasNeverAnOption
#HeteroWasNeverAnOption
October 13, 2025 at 4:49 PM
I lost this pin today.
absolute intense, unhinged emotional reaction for today, check.
absolute intense, unhinged emotional reaction for today, check.
it's so sweet how my cat begs for her treats (medicine) every time like baby, I'm doing this specifically for you. no one will take it away. ♡
October 10, 2025 at 3:25 AM
it's so sweet how my cat begs for her treats (medicine) every time like baby, I'm doing this specifically for you. no one will take it away. ♡
Today, in my first few hours of work, I was able to care for a little peacock butterfly.
Gave that little one some rest, warmth, and fed them a bit. They didn't wanna leave my finger for that. It was so cute. Their wings were a bit damaged, but they flew around so well.
Gave that little one some rest, warmth, and fed them a bit. They didn't wanna leave my finger for that. It was so cute. Their wings were a bit damaged, but they flew around so well.
October 6, 2025 at 6:55 PM
Today, in my first few hours of work, I was able to care for a little peacock butterfly.
Gave that little one some rest, warmth, and fed them a bit. They didn't wanna leave my finger for that. It was so cute. Their wings were a bit damaged, but they flew around so well.
Gave that little one some rest, warmth, and fed them a bit. They didn't wanna leave my finger for that. It was so cute. Their wings were a bit damaged, but they flew around so well.
I really need my brain to activate their memory loss superpower, and FORGET this weekend even existed.
instead of imagining situations that DIDN'T EVEN HAPPEN!
instead of imagining situations that DIDN'T EVEN HAPPEN!
fuck social anxiety and everything else that's wrong with me.
just once I thought I'd be able to socialise like a normal person but yet here we are.
I thought I'd done well those few hours. But here I am overthinking anyways.
bold of me to assume I could handle a party.
just once I thought I'd be able to socialise like a normal person but yet here we are.
I thought I'd done well those few hours. But here I am overthinking anyways.
bold of me to assume I could handle a party.
October 6, 2025 at 5:22 PM
I really need my brain to activate their memory loss superpower, and FORGET this weekend even existed.
instead of imagining situations that DIDN'T EVEN HAPPEN!
instead of imagining situations that DIDN'T EVEN HAPPEN!
stupid mental health walks are stupid.
October 5, 2025 at 12:17 PM
stupid mental health walks are stupid.
fuck social anxiety and everything else that's wrong with me.
just once I thought I'd be able to socialise like a normal person but yet here we are.
I thought I'd done well those few hours. But here I am overthinking anyways.
bold of me to assume I could handle a party.
just once I thought I'd be able to socialise like a normal person but yet here we are.
I thought I'd done well those few hours. But here I am overthinking anyways.
bold of me to assume I could handle a party.
October 5, 2025 at 5:18 AM
fuck social anxiety and everything else that's wrong with me.
just once I thought I'd be able to socialise like a normal person but yet here we are.
I thought I'd done well those few hours. But here I am overthinking anyways.
bold of me to assume I could handle a party.
just once I thought I'd be able to socialise like a normal person but yet here we are.
I thought I'd done well those few hours. But here I am overthinking anyways.
bold of me to assume I could handle a party.
lazy but smart:
I'll have ice cream after dinner today. I put it into a cooling bag so I don't have to get up again and (for)get it.
I'll have ice cream after dinner today. I put it into a cooling bag so I don't have to get up again and (for)get it.
October 2, 2025 at 4:58 PM
lazy but smart:
I'll have ice cream after dinner today. I put it into a cooling bag so I don't have to get up again and (for)get it.
I'll have ice cream after dinner today. I put it into a cooling bag so I don't have to get up again and (for)get it.
I envy people who create things and still like them when (if) they're done.
I'm mostly disgusted and want to get rid of it.
I'm mostly disgusted and want to get rid of it.
October 2, 2025 at 6:09 AM
I envy people who create things and still like them when (if) they're done.
I'm mostly disgusted and want to get rid of it.
I'm mostly disgusted and want to get rid of it.
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People have a hard time detecting red flags when they grow up being taught to normalize the way they were being hurt by people who were supposed to protect them.
September 27, 2025 at 2:30 PM
People have a hard time detecting red flags when they grow up being taught to normalize the way they were being hurt by people who were supposed to protect them.
today, while complaining about too many tasks to do, I got reminded of even more tasks I had already forgotten again. ._.
September 29, 2025 at 3:18 PM
today, while complaining about too many tasks to do, I got reminded of even more tasks I had already forgotten again. ._.
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People don't understand what a big deal it is for a childhood trauma survivor to depend on others, & god forbid, ask for help. When you've had to be dependent on people who hurt you, you try to not need people. If you know someone like this please be patient, clear, & kind.
September 18, 2025 at 11:21 PM
People don't understand what a big deal it is for a childhood trauma survivor to depend on others, & god forbid, ask for help. When you've had to be dependent on people who hurt you, you try to not need people. If you know someone like this please be patient, clear, & kind.
watching a show. queer friend group is massively supportive with each other.
and again, I'm wondering if those friendships exist or if it's just the show.
and again, I'm wondering if those friendships exist or if it's just the show.
September 19, 2025 at 5:54 PM
watching a show. queer friend group is massively supportive with each other.
and again, I'm wondering if those friendships exist or if it's just the show.
and again, I'm wondering if those friendships exist or if it's just the show.
it'll be totally useless, but I've started researching again to prep for my gyn appointment tomorrow.
I'm already massively mad and just hope my rage grows until tomorrow.
I'm already massively mad and just hope my rage grows until tomorrow.
September 8, 2025 at 6:08 AM
it'll be totally useless, but I've started researching again to prep for my gyn appointment tomorrow.
I'm already massively mad and just hope my rage grows until tomorrow.
I'm already massively mad and just hope my rage grows until tomorrow.
@melodiouskey.bsky.social
you must be such a cool person to hang out with irl.
you must be such a cool person to hang out with irl.
September 5, 2025 at 8:02 PM
@melodiouskey.bsky.social
you must be such a cool person to hang out with irl.
you must be such a cool person to hang out with irl.
I'd say I've reached a new low this morning.
I've been watching ads to unlock more dialogue options in a storytelling game.
just to be praised
I've been watching ads to unlock more dialogue options in a storytelling game.
just to be praised
September 1, 2025 at 9:39 AM
I'd say I've reached a new low this morning.
I've been watching ads to unlock more dialogue options in a storytelling game.
just to be praised
I've been watching ads to unlock more dialogue options in a storytelling game.
just to be praised
5 months waiting are finally over ~ my first ever tamagotchi arrived yesterday!
And I can't even put into words how adorably small it is.
Seems to be because of the version (nano).
And I can't even put into words how adorably small it is.
Seems to be because of the version (nano).
August 27, 2025 at 10:40 AM
5 months waiting are finally over ~ my first ever tamagotchi arrived yesterday!
And I can't even put into words how adorably small it is.
Seems to be because of the version (nano).
And I can't even put into words how adorably small it is.
Seems to be because of the version (nano).
I'm the type of person who makes themselves reminders to respond to you, so I will. eventually. (notifications can't be trusted)
and I'll try to pick a time when you won't immediately see it and respond again. obviously.
and I'll try to pick a time when you won't immediately see it and respond again. obviously.
August 21, 2025 at 6:02 AM
I'm the type of person who makes themselves reminders to respond to you, so I will. eventually. (notifications can't be trusted)
and I'll try to pick a time when you won't immediately see it and respond again. obviously.
and I'll try to pick a time when you won't immediately see it and respond again. obviously.