sure! I'm no expert in k8s but may still be useful to hear from someone who's a bit new to it (was coming from a small setup on DOKS fwiw)

yeah another thing I was trying to find is a complete list of valid annotations for NLB & ALB, there was a decent list for NLB but I couldn't find an ALB one.
But glad I finally got things working!

possible I'm just really bad at searching, but the examples I kept finding didn't touch on setting up an ALB in front of k8s services. TLS specifically. I thought what I did find was maybe older annotations that weren't for auto mode but think in the end those worked (was an Ingress alb setup)