Jem Turner
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Jem Turner
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PHP dev & founder of WordPress agency; into fitness shenanigans, food & fancy cocktails. Mostly post random thoughts. 🏳️‍🌈. AuDHD. Two kids, too many pets. (She/her)

Blog: https://www.jemjabella.co.uk/
Work: https://ultimatelybetter.com/
That was also part of my justification for leaving it alone 😂
November 10, 2025 at 11:56 AM
Anyway, the alert was for the cash transfer credit card I took out to pay for my black belt grading last month (because f.. me martial arts is an activity for the privileged) but as it's my only non-mortgage debt now, I think Credit Club might be overreacting 🙃
November 10, 2025 at 7:54 AM
Or RCT
November 5, 2025 at 10:13 AM
I don't know if Giuffre is a reliable witness - I stay away from that sort of news because I find it deeply traumatic. I was referring specifically to your lack of understanding on why an abused child might do things that seem less than sane or rational in your eyes.
November 3, 2025 at 4:48 PM
I was sexually abused as a child from the age of 7 onwards, and have since then done questionable, stupid, promiscuous things - sometimes by choice, sometimes by other's manipulation. Being on the receiving end of abuse at that age does things to you that you can't even begin to comprehend.
November 3, 2025 at 4:41 PM
Oh shiiiiit 😬
October 30, 2025 at 3:33 PM
That doesn't sound good 😬
October 30, 2025 at 2:33 PM
Did they forget to replace it when you last had the livery done, or was the first photo post-refresh?
October 22, 2025 at 8:46 AM
😬 can you disable it in some way to stop you doing that again?
October 9, 2025 at 1:02 PM
This makes me sad because I like knowing you. 🥰

Also, the keys thing. I have extra extra copies now, and asked Gaz to keep his copy just in case. 🫣
October 9, 2025 at 12:48 PM
Yes, but why specifically?

😘
October 9, 2025 at 12:30 PM
I don't have a TV license so @gazchap.com is painstakingly typing them out for me 😂
September 30, 2025 at 12:53 PM
Do you know where I can find the clip? I'd be interested to give it a go
September 30, 2025 at 11:38 AM
Cider has got to be one of your five a day, surely 😆
September 20, 2025 at 3:15 PM
Couple of margaritas a week should sort out scurvy, right? That's my go-to and I'm not a student 😂
September 20, 2025 at 2:41 PM
I mean, it's cynical but probably true
September 19, 2025 at 2:28 PM
I thought they got their money from sponsorships?
September 19, 2025 at 1:45 PM
Hopefully this bit: "Michael Clayton, who will join the parkrun staff team ..." means it won't... 🤞
September 19, 2025 at 10:22 AM
A flipchart would make a fine addition to my repertoire
September 9, 2025 at 1:40 PM