my 1st DNF book was Cider House Rules during my freshman year -- I got about a third of the way into it & the story & characters were so tedious & this stupid excuse for a NYT bestseller was taking me away from my study time...it was so freeing to dump that shit back to the library unread

so can you please repost the stuffed pepper recipe; I had it & it vanished

done

I'm so happy for you that you're out of that house

did you check ko-fi?

*godzilla

ok embrace it like when you were gorilla on stage

the key thing is he is already always miserable...you leaving isn't going to create his suffering, he's been a bottomless pit of misery for a long time (& you admitted you deleted the posts about how shitty he treats you)

pffff maybe instead consider how much he hurts you with remorseless impunity

I'm so proud of you!!! you didn't kill him, you aren't killing him, he is choosing not to try to thrive

'but you pay rent here' your mom can cancel your guilt trip ticket to wash dc xmas and use those funds to offset your lost rent

the only thing you owe them is to get that partner guy out of your mom's house