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Jay Gruber
@jay.myatproto.social
Bainbridge Island, WA. Software engineer.

He/him

Like cooking, reading, soccer, dogs, brewing beer
Or until you run out of observed crimes, but I bet you'd run out of bingo balls first.

Might have to play a second round.
January 15, 2026 at 4:21 AM
"[...] decisions about future resourcing and deprecation of
associated capabilities will principally be made on the basis of these metrics."

Other important, successful projects and orgs will either get starved for resources or will pivot their attention to stop working on their important thing.
January 13, 2026 at 8:24 AM
"Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion and social ideology have no place in
the DoW"

... Just say you've already bought the Grok licenses, we get it
January 13, 2026 at 8:17 AM
There is a memorial on Bainbridge Island now. bijaema.org. They do a lot of good work spreading the word, but agree it is not history people here really reckon with.

I've been visiting family here for ~20 years and lived here a few and only learned of this myself maybe 2 years ago.
Bainbridge Island Japanese American Exclusion Memorial
"Nidoto Nai Yoni" The Memorial Wall winds solemnly down to the historic Eagledale ferry dock landing site, where the first of more than 120,000 Japanese individuals—two-thirds of whom were American c...
bijaema.org
January 13, 2026 at 6:36 AM
A day full of working with the LLM but it is returning not-quite-right results

- feels socially isolated
- feels (not to anthropomorphize the LLM) like being gaslit repeatedly

Neither of these things feel great!

Providers ought to add a screen like Wii sports had "why not take a break?"
January 11, 2026 at 2:00 AM
January 10, 2026 at 11:09 PM
Reposted by Jay Gruber
You can value your values instead of throwing your hands up
January 10, 2026 at 4:45 PM
I cut out both alcohol and caffeine last year, but I did get a LEGO set in a Christmas gift swap. I'm counting that as a crafts project 😂

... Surely once I will complete this in a timely fashion and abandon it half-finished to clutter up part of my desk for months
January 10, 2026 at 4:21 PM
First search results for her name for me. "Made of sunshine".

Go ahead and honor her. No one is upset about that. Folks aren't doing "purity tests". They are asking you to do a bit of the reading before you join the discussion. Seems like the test is this week.

abcnews.go.com/US/renee-goo...
'Made of sunshine': Renee Good's wife speaks out following fatal Minneapolis ICE shooting
Renee Good, a 37-year-old mother and Minneapolis resident, has been identified as the woman fatally shot by an Immigration and Customs Enforcement officer in Minneapolis.
abcnews.go.com
January 10, 2026 at 4:13 PM
SayHerName was created to draw attention to Black women. More likely to be victims/witnesses of police violence, but the media almost never tells their stories.

The media is already writing sympathetic bits about Renee Good, the nice mom with stuffed animals in the car.

Stop centering whiteness.
January 10, 2026 at 4:02 PM