Exactly. This didn’t happen and clarity is being refused so like… something’s fishy about it

I can understand that point. Just in my case I was talking about someone who’s been great for the community and got blindsided with no idea what they did in order to apologize and correct. It was just a “you’re gone now” with no explanation. The info that’s known is from outside sources

That I can get.

Yeah in this hypothetical. It’s referring to a friend that got banned with no explanation and the only thing we found from the grapevine was that something was done that made said person uncomfortable but given the nature of the friend, it makes little to no sense and they have no clue what they did

This was what I was alluding to. Nothing crazy

Firm line and discipline I can agree with 100% and obviously a line needs to be drawn, what I cannot agree with is just a sudden random ban with no reason or explanation especially when I didn’t approach it first to talk it through. Obviously something horrid will warrant that, but it wasn’t that

Making sure. I do know you, but given where you put the reply, I was wanting to erase all doubt that you might have missed the rest

Also, did you see the rest of the post? Because I put it in 3 parts to give some more detail

But I’m not gonna be the type to do so with zero warning or leave them wondering why. Like I said in the hypothetical, it was just the one thing that supposedly irked me. Granted I’ll take the blame for how purposely vague I made this, but I also don’t like leaving people wondering why.

Fully agree. It’s a shame I see instances where that’s not the case…

I don’t know about yall, but those who have been around since the start should have a better idea of what I expect from my communities more than others. Don’t they deserve the chance to correct it?

This is given that they’ve been around since the beginning, they’ve been to everything I’ve set up within their abilities and have always supported me no matter what, not to also mention they’ve been great every time else.

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Awwwrf~

Then PLEASE?!?! ILL BE GOOD PROMISE

I did! I got ignored 🥺