@mrjamesob.bsky.social All this to say... I met my partner of nearly 6 years on Tinder and we have a child together! Your caller earlier who has been on the apps for 7 years, is there a possibility that maybe she might be the problem? "Common denominator" and all that.

@mrjamesob.bsky.social There's also the possibility that younger people are waking up to the idea that perfection doesn't exist and relationships take work and commitment. A degree of discomfort can pave the way for something more meaningful if they allow things to happen organically.