You’re so welcome! We just want ASWT to be a comfortable safe place for everyone :)

It very much reads like a British person so I think that might be where the confusion comes from. It’s the way we tend to just use 1st person as though we’re talking to the other person but we don’t clarify that we’re doing it. I’m sorry you were upset by it. Would you like me to speak to them?

I can see how it was confusing though. I think they were replying to you saying that one of the tropes is that any women (of the very few) are insufferable. They then said that the two in Love Sea are the worst and then the comment you thought was aimed at you was at one of those.

I actually just found the post you’re talking about and I’m fairly confident that the person was talking about the characters they’d referenced, not you.

I’ll follow you now so you can dm me the screenshot

Hey Donna, no problem :)