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iWasErased | David Shubert
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Giving voice to parents erased by silence, family court, and alienation.

Reflections. Truth-telling. Healing.

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When love is replaced with lies, children inherit a silence they were never meant to carry.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/the-silence-they-never-asked-for 

#ParentalAlienation #ChildrenHurt #FamilyTrauma
The Silence They Never Asked For
When Love Is Replaced
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December 22, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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Alienation doesn’t wound just parents and children—its shadows reach across generations.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/alienations-other-silent-victims 

#ParentalAlienation #FamilyImpact #GrandparentsMatter
Alienation’s Other Silent Victims
Most times, I typically write about the parents who are caught in the nightmare of alienation, and even the children who suffer just as deeply.
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December 21, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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Sometimes the loudest heartbreak is the one that slips away in silence.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/gone-without-a-sound 

#ParentalAlienation #SilentPain #FamilyTrauma
Gone Without a Sound
Sitting here quietly sipping on my morning coffee, my mind wanders to times past as I gaze out my dining room window.
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December 20, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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Some memories stay sealed inside us, waiting for the day they can finally breathe again.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/memories-in-a-bottle

#ParentalAlienation #Memories #HealingJourney
Memories in a Bottle
Memories in a Bottle
davidshubert.substack.com
December 19, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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Alienation has existed forever—but this generation has the power to name it and stop it.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/time-for-change-real-change

#ParentalAlienation #RealChange #StopAlienation
Time for Change — Real Change
Parental alienation has always walked among us since the beginning of time — it just didn’t have a name before.
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December 18, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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There comes a point when pain stops whispering—and starts demanding your attention.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/are-you-angry-yet 

#ParentalAlienation #AngerToAction #FamilyCourtReform
Are You Angry Yet?
Today, I thought I’d just dispense with any lead-in to my Reflection article and cut right to the chase since we all know why we're here - PARENTAL ALIENATION.
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December 17, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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Life doesn’t always break the way you expect—but sometimes the sharpest turns reveal the deepest truths.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/the-life-i-didnt-see-coming

#ParentalAlienation #LifeAfterLoss #Resilience
The Life I Didn't See Coming
I remember when I was younger, thinking about how my life might turn out as I got older.
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December 16, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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Some dreams don’t die—they’re forced into silence, waiting for a chance to be whole again.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/the-unfinished-dream

#ParentalAlienation #LostDreams #EmotionalHealing
The Unfinished Dream
Losing a child is perhaps one of, if not the hardest, tragedies any parent will ever experience in their lifetime.
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December 15, 2025 at 5:06 PM
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Alienation builds a cage you can’t see—yet somehow you feel every bar.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/the-prison-without-walls 

#ParentalAlienation #InvisibleAbuse #FamilyCourtReform #ErasedParents
The Prison Without Walls
For those of us in the trenches, there is little doubt that alienation builds a prison without walls.
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December 14, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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When your child feels worlds apart, even the smallest glimmer becomes a lifeline.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/one-star-away 

#ParentalAlienation #Hope #MissingMyChildren
One Star Away
I remember all those years ago when my children were spirited out of my life and taken abroad.
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December 13, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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Sometimes the only way to breathe again is to imagine a place where the pain can’t reach you.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/the-search-for-somewhere-else

#ParentalAlienation #FindingPeace #EmotionalRecovery
The Search for Somewhere Else
I’m not sure if it’s something in the water, but lately, my mind’s been drifting further and further from the grip of alienation.
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December 12, 2025 at 5:03 PM
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While we fight to survive this pain, our children are fighting battles no one sees.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/what-about-them 

#ParentalAlienation #ChildrenMatter #FamilyTrauma
What About Them?
We talk a lot about what we, the parents, go through during the course of alienation from our children.
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December 11, 2025 at 5:03 PM
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Some prayers are whispered into the dark, hoping one day our children hear them too.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/the-prayers-of-an-alienated-parent   

#ParentalAlienation #FaithThroughPain #ErasedParents
The Prayers of an Alienated Parent
Sometimes I think about what it would be like to be in a world of nothingness…A place where time stands still.
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December 10, 2025 at 5:09 PM
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After surviving the unthinkable, you can’t help but wonder what the journey has taken from you.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/was-it-all-worth-it 

#ParentalAlienation #HealingJourney #AlienatedParents
Was It All Worth It?
Sometimes, when my mind is idle, I wonder if the journey through the world of alienation was worth it.
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December 9, 2025 at 5:04 PM
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For every parent who lost their voice, this is where you finally get it back.

https://davidshubert.substack.com/p/welcome-to-iwaserased-a-space-for

#ParentalAlienation #iWasErased #FamilyCourtReform
Welcome to iWasErased: A Space for the Silenced
If you’re reading this, chances are you already know what it feels like to be erased from your children’s lives.
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December 8, 2025 at 5:03 PM
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The Celebrations They Miss
The Celebrations They Miss
Mother's Day just passed and Father's Day is right around the corner, and I can’t help but wonder how many of our children will continue to be denied their basic right to help celebrate another milestone with their other parent.
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May 12, 2025 at 6:37 PM
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The Prayers of an Alienated Parent

I long for a place where the weight of alienation fades, even for a moment. A place where hope feels light again.

Until then, we keep showing up, even when no one sees.

David Shubert

✍️ Read: davidshubert.substack.com/p/the-prayer...
#ParentalAlienation
The Prayers of an Alienated Parent
Sometimes I think about what it would be like to be in a world of nothingness…A place where time stands still.
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May 7, 2025 at 8:30 PM
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Ever sat in silence and wondered: Was it worth it?

Not because we stopped loving, but because alienation nearly broke us.

Maybe the answer is… we’re still here. Still loving through the silence.

Read: davidshubert.substack.com/p/was-it-all...

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May 7, 2025 at 3:35 AM