Diamond: each carbon forms 4 strong covalent bonds in a 3D tetrahedral network -very hard.
Graphite: each carbon forms 3 bonds in flat hexagonal layers with weak forces between layers → soft
The answer lies in atomic structure, how those carbon atoms are arranged. @princeton.edu neuroscientist Sebastian Seung explains how this simple shift unlocks dramatic differences in material properties.
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Diamond: each carbon forms 4 strong covalent bonds in a 3D tetrahedral network -very hard.
Graphite: each carbon forms 3 bonds in flat hexagonal layers with weak forces between layers → soft