Kurt
@inlivingcolouer.bsky.social
Wounded healer and porn & findom addiction Recovery Coach Professional (RCP). Grammar nazi, expert overthinker. 🇳🇱
A thread 🧵
How to cure your findom addiction in three easy steps.
Here are the tips and tricks that will instantly rid you of findom addiction.
𝑝𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒...
I get asked for this a lot. Usually the focus is on managing the consequences instead of working on the core issues.
How to cure your findom addiction in three easy steps.
Here are the tips and tricks that will instantly rid you of findom addiction.
𝑝𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒...
I get asked for this a lot. Usually the focus is on managing the consequences instead of working on the core issues.
December 27, 2024 at 8:19 PM
A thread 🧵
How to cure your findom addiction in three easy steps.
Here are the tips and tricks that will instantly rid you of findom addiction.
𝑝𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒...
I get asked for this a lot. Usually the focus is on managing the consequences instead of working on the core issues.
How to cure your findom addiction in three easy steps.
Here are the tips and tricks that will instantly rid you of findom addiction.
𝑝𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒...
I get asked for this a lot. Usually the focus is on managing the consequences instead of working on the core issues.
Anybody working with chatgpt/AI find the constant disclaimers annoying?
If I'm asking about a generalisation of course I know this isn't accurate for all people.
I've even stumbled upon questions where chatgpt declined to answer because of fear the data would be misinterpreted.
If I'm asking about a generalisation of course I know this isn't accurate for all people.
I've even stumbled upon questions where chatgpt declined to answer because of fear the data would be misinterpreted.
December 27, 2024 at 8:19 PM
Anybody working with chatgpt/AI find the constant disclaimers annoying?
If I'm asking about a generalisation of course I know this isn't accurate for all people.
I've even stumbled upon questions where chatgpt declined to answer because of fear the data would be misinterpreted.
If I'm asking about a generalisation of course I know this isn't accurate for all people.
I've even stumbled upon questions where chatgpt declined to answer because of fear the data would be misinterpreted.
Less talked about vital elements of addiction recovery.
Cats
Chocolate
Crying
Cats
Chocolate
Crying
December 27, 2024 at 8:19 PM
Less talked about vital elements of addiction recovery.
Cats
Chocolate
Crying
Cats
Chocolate
Crying
⚠️ TW
An exception to not quoting Doms because the below is too important.
BUT if you as addicted finsub actually wanted assisted self-harm and were unfortunate enough to find it, that calls for a lot of introspection, and outside help.
Can't put all your issues on the Dom.
x.com/commandanttt/s…
An exception to not quoting Doms because the below is too important.
BUT if you as addicted finsub actually wanted assisted self-harm and were unfortunate enough to find it, that calls for a lot of introspection, and outside help.
Can't put all your issues on the Dom.
x.com/commandanttt/s…
December 27, 2024 at 8:19 PM
⚠️ TW
An exception to not quoting Doms because the below is too important.
BUT if you as addicted finsub actually wanted assisted self-harm and were unfortunate enough to find it, that calls for a lot of introspection, and outside help.
Can't put all your issues on the Dom.
x.com/commandanttt/s…
An exception to not quoting Doms because the below is too important.
BUT if you as addicted finsub actually wanted assisted self-harm and were unfortunate enough to find it, that calls for a lot of introspection, and outside help.
Can't put all your issues on the Dom.
x.com/commandanttt/s…
Overthinking / brain dump
With how much information has moved to digital and the ease with which it can be changed it seems to me it is actually 𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 the value of the psychically written or printed word – what's left of it – instead of replacing it.
With how much information has moved to digital and the ease with which it can be changed it seems to me it is actually 𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 the value of the psychically written or printed word – what's left of it – instead of replacing it.
December 27, 2024 at 8:19 PM
Overthinking / brain dump
With how much information has moved to digital and the ease with which it can be changed it seems to me it is actually 𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 the value of the psychically written or printed word – what's left of it – instead of replacing it.
With how much information has moved to digital and the ease with which it can be changed it seems to me it is actually 𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 the value of the psychically written or printed word – what's left of it – instead of replacing it.
Stop.
Less scrolling more strolling.
Less scrolling more strolling.
December 27, 2024 at 8:19 PM
Stop.
Less scrolling more strolling.
Less scrolling more strolling.
Over 10yrs of frequent drama made my brain to see it as normal.
Sometimes I seem to be actively sabotaging the peace when I interact with people. Like it's my brain looking for any excuse to get back to drama.
It's getting better but still a work in progress.
#recovery
Sometimes I seem to be actively sabotaging the peace when I interact with people. Like it's my brain looking for any excuse to get back to drama.
It's getting better but still a work in progress.
#recovery
December 27, 2024 at 8:19 PM
Over 10yrs of frequent drama made my brain to see it as normal.
Sometimes I seem to be actively sabotaging the peace when I interact with people. Like it's my brain looking for any excuse to get back to drama.
It's getting better but still a work in progress.
#recovery
Sometimes I seem to be actively sabotaging the peace when I interact with people. Like it's my brain looking for any excuse to get back to drama.
It's getting better but still a work in progress.
#recovery
Let go of the stigma.
Us men, we are not weak for talking about our issues, we are courageous.
x.com/MindBodySoleUK…
Us men, we are not weak for talking about our issues, we are courageous.
x.com/MindBodySoleUK…
December 27, 2024 at 8:19 PM
Let go of the stigma.
Us men, we are not weak for talking about our issues, we are courageous.
x.com/MindBodySoleUK…
Us men, we are not weak for talking about our issues, we are courageous.
x.com/MindBodySoleUK…
I could as well call my recovery the battle of the bulge.
#findom #findomaddiction #addiction #recovery
#findom #findomaddiction #addiction #recovery
December 27, 2024 at 8:19 PM
I could as well call my recovery the battle of the bulge.
#findom #findomaddiction #addiction #recovery
#findom #findomaddiction #addiction #recovery
And be willing to accept that some things may never be possible.
For me it's Instagram.
If you decide to leave twitter, good on you! If you can, drop me a message before you do 👋🏼
#findom #findomaddiction #addiction #recovery
For me it's Instagram.
If you decide to leave twitter, good on you! If you can, drop me a message before you do 👋🏼
#findom #findomaddiction #addiction #recovery
December 27, 2024 at 8:19 PM
And be willing to accept that some things may never be possible.
For me it's Instagram.
If you decide to leave twitter, good on you! If you can, drop me a message before you do 👋🏼
#findom #findomaddiction #addiction #recovery
For me it's Instagram.
If you decide to leave twitter, good on you! If you can, drop me a message before you do 👋🏼
#findom #findomaddiction #addiction #recovery
Just stumbled upon a Facebook group for overthinkers.
Ahhhh,home 😆
Ahhhh,home 😆
December 27, 2024 at 8:19 PM
Just stumbled upon a Facebook group for overthinkers.
Ahhhh,home 😆
Ahhhh,home 😆
Can't get around pain, the only way is through.
December 27, 2024 at 8:18 PM
Can't get around pain, the only way is through.
Turns out post-holiday depression is a thing.
December 27, 2024 at 8:18 PM
Turns out post-holiday depression is a thing.
Things you never hear in findom:
I accidentally pressed send.
I accidentally pressed send.
December 27, 2024 at 8:18 PM
Things you never hear in findom:
I accidentally pressed send.
I accidentally pressed send.
Heard in meeting
"Step 11 Sought through prayer and 𝘮𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 to improve our conscious contact with a Power greater than ourselves, praying only for knowledge of God’s will for us and the power to carry that out."
Almost fell off my chair 😂
"Step 11 Sought through prayer and 𝘮𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 to improve our conscious contact with a Power greater than ourselves, praying only for knowledge of God’s will for us and the power to carry that out."
Almost fell off my chair 😂
December 27, 2024 at 8:18 PM
Heard in meeting
"Step 11 Sought through prayer and 𝘮𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 to improve our conscious contact with a Power greater than ourselves, praying only for knowledge of God’s will for us and the power to carry that out."
Almost fell off my chair 😂
"Step 11 Sought through prayer and 𝘮𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 to improve our conscious contact with a Power greater than ourselves, praying only for knowledge of God’s will for us and the power to carry that out."
Almost fell off my chair 😂
Calling all findommes/doms!
Subs as well.
I'm researching autodrain for my blog.
I get blocked left and right once I state that it's to help people avoid harm. Or when the domme/dom I'm talking to doesn't see any personal benefit.
If you are familiar with it pls say hi!
Subs as well.
I'm researching autodrain for my blog.
I get blocked left and right once I state that it's to help people avoid harm. Or when the domme/dom I'm talking to doesn't see any personal benefit.
If you are familiar with it pls say hi!
December 27, 2024 at 8:18 PM
Calling all findommes/doms!
Subs as well.
I'm researching autodrain for my blog.
I get blocked left and right once I state that it's to help people avoid harm. Or when the domme/dom I'm talking to doesn't see any personal benefit.
If you are familiar with it pls say hi!
Subs as well.
I'm researching autodrain for my blog.
I get blocked left and right once I state that it's to help people avoid harm. Or when the domme/dom I'm talking to doesn't see any personal benefit.
If you are familiar with it pls say hi!
Serving a dom is a privilege – not just any sub gets to submit to a dom at their leisure. In findom sending = submission.
So it seems having payment methods publicly posted for literally everyone to use would devalue the act of submitting. Worship, yes, but submission..
#findom
So it seems having payment methods publicly posted for literally everyone to use would devalue the act of submitting. Worship, yes, but submission..
#findom
December 27, 2024 at 8:18 PM
Serving a dom is a privilege – not just any sub gets to submit to a dom at their leisure. In findom sending = submission.
So it seems having payment methods publicly posted for literally everyone to use would devalue the act of submitting. Worship, yes, but submission..
#findom
So it seems having payment methods publicly posted for literally everyone to use would devalue the act of submitting. Worship, yes, but submission..
#findom
"This group is helping me to put into words all the thoughts that have been going round in my head for 10 years. Feeling that what I say will be understood and empathised with is helping me to open up."
– Anonymous FAA
Connection is antithetical to addiction.
#findomaddiction
– Anonymous FAA
Connection is antithetical to addiction.
#findomaddiction
December 27, 2024 at 8:18 PM
"This group is helping me to put into words all the thoughts that have been going round in my head for 10 years. Feeling that what I say will be understood and empathised with is helping me to open up."
– Anonymous FAA
Connection is antithetical to addiction.
#findomaddiction
– Anonymous FAA
Connection is antithetical to addiction.
#findomaddiction
December 27, 2024 at 8:18 PM
The average findom addict juggles multiple abusive relationships at the same time.
Notfunnybutfunny
#addiction #findomaddiction #findom
Notfunnybutfunny
#addiction #findomaddiction #findom
December 27, 2024 at 8:18 PM
The average findom addict juggles multiple abusive relationships at the same time.
Notfunnybutfunny
#addiction #findomaddiction #findom
Notfunnybutfunny
#addiction #findomaddiction #findom
Being hard on yourself can come in many forms, not just negative self talk that you're aware of:
- not eating then you're hungry
- procrastinating
- bed time procrastination
- not going to the toilet when you need to
- not contacting people (for support)
#recovery #RecoveryPosse
- not eating then you're hungry
- procrastinating
- bed time procrastination
- not going to the toilet when you need to
- not contacting people (for support)
#recovery #RecoveryPosse
December 27, 2024 at 8:18 PM
Being hard on yourself can come in many forms, not just negative self talk that you're aware of:
- not eating then you're hungry
- procrastinating
- bed time procrastination
- not going to the toilet when you need to
- not contacting people (for support)
#recovery #RecoveryPosse
- not eating then you're hungry
- procrastinating
- bed time procrastination
- not going to the toilet when you need to
- not contacting people (for support)
#recovery #RecoveryPosse
So much gratitude about this 🙏🏼
Please retweet to help spread the word. Thank you so much ❤️
#findom #addiction #findomaddiction #recovery #RecoveryPosse
x.com/Findom_AA/stat…
Please retweet to help spread the word. Thank you so much ❤️
#findom #addiction #findomaddiction #recovery #RecoveryPosse
x.com/Findom_AA/stat…
December 27, 2024 at 8:18 PM
So much gratitude about this 🙏🏼
Please retweet to help spread the word. Thank you so much ❤️
#findom #addiction #findomaddiction #recovery #RecoveryPosse
x.com/Findom_AA/stat…
Please retweet to help spread the word. Thank you so much ❤️
#findom #addiction #findomaddiction #recovery #RecoveryPosse
x.com/Findom_AA/stat…