SporadicJoy
@inelegantlife.bsky.social
Living the life as a 50+ grandma. 🏈 Denver Broncos. 🏎️ NASCAR. ❤️ Compassion. 🤝Kindness. 🧠 Bipolar II. 📚 True Crime. 👵GenX. 💃 Dancing. 🏳️🌈 LGBTQ+ Supporter ‼️ Platonic Friendship ONLY 🎀 Breast Cancer Warrior
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Time for some fun! Channeling my 8th grade self.
October 5, 2025 at 2:33 AM
Time for some fun! Channeling my 8th grade self.
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We can fund health care and keep the government running, or we can shut everything down to raise prices on people.
To me, that’s a pretty easy choice.
To me, that’s a pretty easy choice.
October 4, 2025 at 3:47 PM
We can fund health care and keep the government running, or we can shut everything down to raise prices on people.
To me, that’s a pretty easy choice.
To me, that’s a pretty easy choice.
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RFK Jr. discouraged Samoa's people from being vaccinated, being a Kennedy people believed him… 83 children died & over 5,000 cases of measles spread through the country, caused in large part by RFK Jr. He is a terrible HHS secretary, We are going to see epidemics and death across America!
September 25, 2025 at 5:15 PM
RFK Jr. discouraged Samoa's people from being vaccinated, being a Kennedy people believed him… 83 children died & over 5,000 cases of measles spread through the country, caused in large part by RFK Jr. He is a terrible HHS secretary, We are going to see epidemics and death across America!
Also, epic potentially relationship ending fight is because I caved and let my 32-yo daughter drive our truck. I trust her driving the monster truck more than I trust myself. But this decision somehow justifies throwing things and saying all kinds of things that aren’t true. So whatevs.
September 26, 2025 at 5:27 AM
Also, epic potentially relationship ending fight is because I caved and let my 32-yo daughter drive our truck. I trust her driving the monster truck more than I trust myself. But this decision somehow justifies throwing things and saying all kinds of things that aren’t true. So whatevs.
Judge me all you want but there are advantages to being in an epic fight with you partner & going somewhere else for the night. I don’t have to leave a light on. I can have the room as cold as I want. I get the whole bed to myself. I get to talk to other liberals.
September 26, 2025 at 5:25 AM
Judge me all you want but there are advantages to being in an epic fight with you partner & going somewhere else for the night. I don’t have to leave a light on. I can have the room as cold as I want. I get the whole bed to myself. I get to talk to other liberals.
Hmm, I guess it’s unconscious anxiety. 🤷♀️
September 16, 2025 at 11:41 AM
Hmm, I guess it’s unconscious anxiety. 🤷♀️
Try it! Total change in mindset.
September 14, 2025 at 3:54 PM
Try it! Total change in mindset.
Rare mother-daughter only day with my first born. Glad to see the lake a little fuller than last time I was here. #arizona #canyonlake
September 8, 2025 at 3:02 PM
Rare mother-daughter only day with my first born. Glad to see the lake a little fuller than last time I was here. #arizona #canyonlake
I sometimes hand out free flowers in the grocery store parking lot. Today, in 104 degree Arizona heat, I couldn’t get 12 people to take one. That’s ok. But two women were really rude to me. W/ so much vitriol these days it hit my heart hard. “No, but thank you” isn’t that hard to come up with.
August 31, 2025 at 8:58 PM
I sometimes hand out free flowers in the grocery store parking lot. Today, in 104 degree Arizona heat, I couldn’t get 12 people to take one. That’s ok. But two women were really rude to me. W/ so much vitriol these days it hit my heart hard. “No, but thank you” isn’t that hard to come up with.
I think maybe hell is a place you go & are treated exactly how you treated others during your life. The way you spoke about and to them, the things you did & didn’t do. You can never change yourself or the others. You’re all just always treated that way. 🤷♀️
August 30, 2025 at 11:31 PM
I think maybe hell is a place you go & are treated exactly how you treated others during your life. The way you spoke about and to them, the things you did & didn’t do. You can never change yourself or the others. You’re all just always treated that way. 🤷♀️
This rarely happens. I have goosebumps. (Yes, I also have fat, hairy, very white legs. But that’s a different topic.) Thank you, Heber, Arizona. I can’t explain how much I needed to not be hot.
August 17, 2025 at 3:41 AM
This rarely happens. I have goosebumps. (Yes, I also have fat, hairy, very white legs. But that’s a different topic.) Thank you, Heber, Arizona. I can’t explain how much I needed to not be hot.
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The fact they’re even entertaining the thought of Big B*lls getting the Presidential Medal of Freedom is ludicrous. Why not just give one to Ghislaine Maxwell for “youth outreach” while you’re at it!? Prestige officially in the gutter.
-Call To Activism
-Call To Activism
August 13, 2025 at 11:42 AM
The fact they’re even entertaining the thought of Big B*lls getting the Presidential Medal of Freedom is ludicrous. Why not just give one to Ghislaine Maxwell for “youth outreach” while you’re at it!? Prestige officially in the gutter.
-Call To Activism
-Call To Activism
Costco run was a little traumatic. Which is kind of a relief. I was worried my heart had turned to ice but this reminded me I do care. Took awhile to stop shaking and fighting the tears.
August 9, 2025 at 4:45 AM
Costco run was a little traumatic. Which is kind of a relief. I was worried my heart had turned to ice but this reminded me I do care. Took awhile to stop shaking and fighting the tears.
Love my dad so much. He’s always given exponentially more than he receives and as much as it breaks my heart in some ways, at least he’s not a selfish, lazy, hypocritical asshole like so many others.
August 4, 2025 at 2:46 AM
Love my dad so much. He’s always given exponentially more than he receives and as much as it breaks my heart in some ways, at least he’s not a selfish, lazy, hypocritical asshole like so many others.
What a freaking week. Particularly losing my car key, frantically searching. Taking a Lyft to the dr, and finding the key ON MY DESK. But I tried to at least look cute. 🤷♀️
August 1, 2025 at 11:36 PM
What a freaking week. Particularly losing my car key, frantically searching. Taking a Lyft to the dr, and finding the key ON MY DESK. But I tried to at least look cute. 🤷♀️
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Dog and house sitting. I watched a bunch of Trainwreck shows and both seasons of Stranded with my Mother-in-Law. (Ilhados com a Sogra) A weekend of TV watching says a lot about my current mental state.
July 21, 2025 at 2:35 AM
Dog and house sitting. I watched a bunch of Trainwreck shows and both seasons of Stranded with my Mother-in-Law. (Ilhados com a Sogra) A weekend of TV watching says a lot about my current mental state.
I went to a local bar/restaurant with my daughter tonight. First I got calls & texts asking wtf I was doing & not believing me. Then he showed up and made a scene. This is NOT my fault, right?
July 13, 2025 at 7:22 AM
I went to a local bar/restaurant with my daughter tonight. First I got calls & texts asking wtf I was doing & not believing me. Then he showed up and made a scene. This is NOT my fault, right?
When you’ve had enough of life & you’re trying to teach your 3-yo grandson 2 legit to quit… while playing cars and dinosaurs. This is what life is about, right?!
July 13, 2025 at 12:41 AM
When you’ve had enough of life & you’re trying to teach your 3-yo grandson 2 legit to quit… while playing cars and dinosaurs. This is what life is about, right?!
There is a good chance my life will be completely changing soon. I’m scared. Sad. Guilt-ridden. But therapy & personal growth have helped me realize I’m a good friend & companion but a terrible partner. I have a lot of work to do on myself.
July 11, 2025 at 3:10 AM
There is a good chance my life will be completely changing soon. I’m scared. Sad. Guilt-ridden. But therapy & personal growth have helped me realize I’m a good friend & companion but a terrible partner. I have a lot of work to do on myself.
Not sure what’s up with my fitness tracker. This is just slightly out of whack. 😆
July 8, 2025 at 12:46 AM
Not sure what’s up with my fitness tracker. This is just slightly out of whack. 😆
💯 There’s a difference between nice and kind. I’ve mistaken this a a few times. The abuse may be subtle. The man may not consciously realize he’s doing it. This makes it even harder to leave, because women aren’t supposed to leave without glaring public evidence. Women should never leave nice guys.
July 6, 2025 at 9:01 PM
💯 There’s a difference between nice and kind. I’ve mistaken this a a few times. The abuse may be subtle. The man may not consciously realize he’s doing it. This makes it even harder to leave, because women aren’t supposed to leave without glaring public evidence. Women should never leave nice guys.
Celebrating the birth of our country. You know, when the English emigrated from England & became immigrants here. They fought to be free of tyranny & religious persecution & for democracy. We must keep fighting for all human rights, true democracy, freedom for ALL, love and decency and compassion.
July 5, 2025 at 5:31 AM
Celebrating the birth of our country. You know, when the English emigrated from England & became immigrants here. They fought to be free of tyranny & religious persecution & for democracy. We must keep fighting for all human rights, true democracy, freedom for ALL, love and decency and compassion.
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