her children disappear from her vision when they leave her city limits. she communicates with other cities sometimes, to check on her born and raised.
(jump city was frequently contacted, for a time)

she mourns for each death.
each time one of her children dies, she takes great care of their soul, and they pass through her calloused fingers to reach to afterlife.

(the joker is one example. she detests him, for turning on his own. she cannot do anything about it, though, as fate puts their thin hand on her shoulder and holds her back)

gotham cannot control the actions of her gothamites, but she tries to help and influence them through omens of wind and rain.

their bad actions sadden her, and some of them have been disowned.

thinking about the girl with Jason's very favorite special edition Pride and Prejudice book with a rare book sleeve and his notes on every page. He let her use it because she mentioned she would like to read classics more and he gave her that saying "You need the best experience for the first read-

thinking about how the upperclassmen would have to protect the sophomores and freshmen from the media and deal with the fact the kid younger than them had died. They have to grapple with the reminder that life is so short and a 15 year old kid's death made them realize it.

drama club and the posters they put up in the halls for him with signatures of every student's name (even the one's that had never seen him in person).

over the loss of a school mate (even the ones who never knew him, regardless of the fact he was son of a famous man) and don't want to face pushy adults about their friends death and the empty seat in the classrooms and the one open club officer spot for book club and the now missing cast member in-

because he was such a sweet guy and the fact that news reporters probably hung around the school for ages trying to get interviews with random students about Jay for insiders about how he was because they wanted to milk the shit out of this teenager's death even though all these kids are devastated-

can we switch it's wayyy too hot over here