So yeah, not surprised people are terrified of topping. Expect bad outputs from bad culture. Result: Most tops are just clumsily fumbling at buttons labeled with the most common sex stereotypes.

I've met exactly ONE switch in my entire life who learned communication. I'm dating her. She's awesome.

As a demisexual person, my desired tops are people who will communicate with me to know what I'm about, learn what I like, and learn how to use that to make me feel good.

The lack of communication is a flaw, way beyond my preference. LEARN! A top presuming my business is extremely unattractive.

So much of it is just misaligned. How unrealistic performance expectations in ciscentric culture leads to tops faking skill and substituting bravado and confidence, because the expectation is that they will charm you by magically saying everything right and fucking you exactly how you secretly want.

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Tragic, truly... 😔

I think people like prints mostly for wall decor and the smaller ones usually feel too small for that? That's my guess!

Hopefully should have a new page up tmrw!
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Yeah, its notable that most of the competition falls far short, not even asking 'how can we also excel?'. It's a bit like... they just accept that they can't (read: don't see it as profitable to) compete, because why fight over that market when they (Amazon epic etc) can just keep their own niches.

"survived" I've often heard. Although the friends who are dedicated to chastity are so into it that November specifically isn't even an event anymore. They've been caged for months or over a year! (They take it off for bathing and hygiene maintenance reasons of course though)

As long as it's ethical... 🤍