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ifyouhurtihurt.bsky.social
👁the unyielding gaze of the abyss👁
@ifyouhurtihurt.bsky.social
Peruser of forbidden tomes, collector of curious relics, and witness of the Old God of the Wood. Nothing really matters—so really, everything matters. 🏴Everything for everyone🏴 Autistic and ADHD (he/him)
i believe the right ones are skunk tracks 🥰
December 6, 2025 at 4:46 PM
I went to Vancouver a few years ago and the mountains stole my heart. I finally knew what it was to have a place feel like where you belong. alas 😔
October 26, 2025 at 6:32 PM
i am fairly active on discord. you can add me at ‘dewteereeum’ (just add a message with who you are so I don’t ignore lol)

thank you particularly to Amber and Claire. you both inspire and delight me with your creativity and wit 🖤
October 23, 2025 at 4:48 PM
needed. compassion and empathy are jewels of humanity.

to the people i’ve befriended over the years here, thank you. and i’m doing my best to check the apps more often than i have, but i also need to preserve Hope, something i need as a father, and something social media actively sabotages.
October 23, 2025 at 4:48 PM
handle has always said: if you hurt, i hurt

my DMs are open to anyone that needs an ear. i can’t promise to be an active conversationalist (trust me, my friends and family know how hard it is to get a hold of me), but i can promise to always engage in good faith, and offer compassion wherever
October 23, 2025 at 4:48 PM
people need people, and i’ve rarely found someone that couldn’t be pulled to the side of compassion.

this is to say: i love you. every one of you. not in some parasocial, vacuous sense, but in that I care about you and want you to be happy when you can, and want your burden to be lighter. as my
October 23, 2025 at 4:48 PM
there are for sure still bigots irl, but it usually comes from ignorance and propaganda (ironically from social media). i do my best to push back against language and ideas i find disagreeable, and when you’re actually speaking to someone, without the veil of anonymity, a lot of them listen.
October 23, 2025 at 4:48 PM
vile, bigoted comments. and it’s all so tiring.

so if you’re wondering why i’ve been so absent of social media as of late (you probably weren’t—who am i, after all), that’s why.

the good news is that if you physically interact with people, people are mostly Good, at least from what i’ve found.
October 23, 2025 at 4:48 PM
us on a scale completely unprecedented in history:

every post pushed to us showing us the worst of humanity. half the comments are bots that are deliberately setup to stir the pot, and normalize the most insidious language i’ve ever seen. subreddits for my local area are filled with
October 23, 2025 at 4:48 PM
as often as possible, for as long as possible.

this functionally ends at a state where the Algorithm purposely pushes content that induces fear and anger, two emotions that keep our silly primate brains engaged.

so though a great tool for connecting us, it’s unfortunately been wielded to divide
October 23, 2025 at 4:48 PM
same guy who said we’ll have self driving cars in a year, every year, for like 10 years. same guy who said he’ll save the gov like 300B dollars, fired everyone, and then got fired btw

guy is good at nothing except lying to stakeholders lol
October 7, 2025 at 3:11 PM
the movies were a treat for the bisexuals, for sure
October 3, 2025 at 2:43 PM
i get a bunch of behind-the-scenes clips

do love a aragorn fancam tho. i’m a (mostly) straight man, but nobody has ever looked hotter than viggo as aragorn
October 3, 2025 at 2:39 PM
have you tried watching in firefox with the uBlock Origin extension? haven’t tried tubi but it works for everything else i’ve used (youtube, twitch, etc)
September 23, 2025 at 8:59 PM
(also my wife has taken tylenol throughout her pregnancy, so I am now blameless if our son is autistic 😌)
September 23, 2025 at 3:23 PM
yes, a day of socializing under fluorescent lights will knock me out for a week, but I also learned how to program with Java in 3 months because I wanted to make a minecraft mod. we take what we can get 🤷🏻
September 23, 2025 at 3:20 PM
the interesting progression in OB2 was really refreshing. would be nice to see more of that (plus the airdrops were fun)
September 21, 2025 at 10:25 AM