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they/them, 30s
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Just for clarification, when you talk about it:

Gävle is pronounced "Yeah-vleh", not gav-la, gev-lee or gea-vley.
November 27, 2025 at 10:53 PM
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I feel like there's also a video of Est talking about it BUT

🎸: i couldn’t really kiss well today, my lips felt stiff. so khun est told me to lie down. then he played thame and i played po, so i could understand how to kiss. he showed me how to do it. he demonstrated it.
November 26, 2025 at 12:17 PM
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(Also the trial measures blockers’ impact on “gender dysphoria,” which some of us have been saying for years is an inherently pathologising diagnosis easily manipulated to curtail bodily autonomy, but ☕️🐸)

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Have we got it wrong on dysphoria? Abigail Thorn discusses trans healthcare - Trans Writes
I would prefer to centre desire and will when talking about transition. To me, transition is more than meeting a medical need, just like crossing the Rubicon was more than Caesar getting his feet wet....
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November 22, 2025 at 9:10 AM
thought it was weird that my arm still hurt a bit after blood tests so removed the bandaid and there's like a bump under the injection site. like the vein has swollen up or smth. it'll probably die down so i'm not really worried but it feels wrong enough that touching it makes me light headed 😵‍💫😬
November 20, 2025 at 7:14 PM
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I think if you have chronic pain in any form, it’s important to not get mad at yourself for being tired. It is genuinely not your fault. You’re always hurting, and it’s constantly stressing your brain out and sapping your energy. You’re doing the best you can, and that is enough. ❤️
November 16, 2025 at 2:11 PM
so so so good
November 15, 2025 at 4:29 PM