Always happy to talk, just be respectful.
Be content. Don't not be angry, there's a lot to be angry at, but learn to be content, learn to see and appreciate what you do have. It is ok to be mad or weep at the world, but find joy where you can, or else what are you going to be mad about having lost?
Be content. Don't not be angry, there's a lot to be angry at, but learn to be content, learn to see and appreciate what you do have. It is ok to be mad or weep at the world, but find joy where you can, or else what are you going to be mad about having lost?
"You wouldn't look at an orange and call it a banana, then get mad at it for not being a banana." If someone looks at you and sees something other than *you, their inability to accept it is their problem. Don't blame yourself for their lack of acceptance.
"You wouldn't look at an orange and call it a banana, then get mad at it for not being a banana." If someone looks at you and sees something other than *you, their inability to accept it is their problem. Don't blame yourself for their lack of acceptance.
Social media allows us to hear the voices of those who *need to be heard*. Do not ask the marginalized or persecuted to shut up, find another audience, or to change their message in a time when they need to be the loudest and the *most seen and heard.*
Social media allows us to hear the voices of those who *need to be heard*. Do not ask the marginalized or persecuted to shut up, find another audience, or to change their message in a time when they need to be the loudest and the *most seen and heard.*
I was initially a sub. A series of partners taught me they liked it when I was dominant. Now, this is my default state, but it I still like when I am the one being chased. Talk to your partner about this. Make sure they are ok, and make your needs known.
I was initially a sub. A series of partners taught me they liked it when I was dominant. Now, this is my default state, but it I still like when I am the one being chased. Talk to your partner about this. Make sure they are ok, and make your needs known.
When I was learning how to tackle big tasks, I was taught that if you cannot focus on a task you need to do, focus on a task you like to build up momentum. It should be something important, but more appealing, so it's productive, just easier to self motivate
When I was learning how to tackle big tasks, I was taught that if you cannot focus on a task you need to do, focus on a task you like to build up momentum. It should be something important, but more appealing, so it's productive, just easier to self motivate
Lately, I have been coming back around to this idea of evaluating the severity of consequences of failure when evaluating risk. Evaluate the potential outcomes and the consequences of those outcomes. Sometimes you can take the hit to get some deserved rest.
Lately, I have been coming back around to this idea of evaluating the severity of consequences of failure when evaluating risk. Evaluate the potential outcomes and the consequences of those outcomes. Sometimes you can take the hit to get some deserved rest.
Progress takes many forms. You don't always have to finish the task you start. Moving the progress bar closer to complete is still productive. And cooking just to have food isn't special, but it stops me from ordering pizza.
Progress takes many forms. You don't always have to finish the task you start. Moving the progress bar closer to complete is still productive. And cooking just to have food isn't special, but it stops me from ordering pizza.
It's ok to tell people you care about when you have a problem with them. And if someone you care about comes to you saying you hurt them? Listen. Don't let ego get in the way of saying, "I am sorry, what can we do to correct this."
It's ok to tell people you care about when you have a problem with them. And if someone you care about comes to you saying you hurt them? Listen. Don't let ego get in the way of saying, "I am sorry, what can we do to correct this."
Look at the author of a message when they speak. Look at who they are, what they promote, and what they say as the norm. Consider each message against their past actions, and hold them accountable for anything that goes against who they have claimed to be.
Look at the author of a message when they speak. Look at who they are, what they promote, and what they say as the norm. Consider each message against their past actions, and hold them accountable for anything that goes against who they have claimed to be.
Take care of yourself. If you find you need more space to process emotions, or your friends/partners/hobbies are more stressful or irritating, or you want to snap at people, then change course. Excuse yourself and get some peace.
Take care of yourself. If you find you need more space to process emotions, or your friends/partners/hobbies are more stressful or irritating, or you want to snap at people, then change course. Excuse yourself and get some peace.
Listen to your friends and family when they want to tell you how you make them feel or who they see when they look at you. They see the "you* the rest of the world is impacted by. You'll never know yourself unless you see the full picture.
Listen to your friends and family when they want to tell you how you make them feel or who they see when they look at you. They see the "you* the rest of the world is impacted by. You'll never know yourself unless you see the full picture.
We have an obligation to this world and each other to minimize the harm & destruction we cause while we exist, and to leave the world better than how we found it where we can. Proper stewardship of your surroundings is on you. Act like it matters.
We have an obligation to this world and each other to minimize the harm & destruction we cause while we exist, and to leave the world better than how we found it where we can. Proper stewardship of your surroundings is on you. Act like it matters.
Normalize seeing green flas in people. Most of us *want* to be good people, but it is hard to keep the motivation to even see past our immediate turbulent future. Knowing someone is seen and appreciated for their kindnesses is a huge encouragement.
Normalize seeing green flas in people. Most of us *want* to be good people, but it is hard to keep the motivation to even see past our immediate turbulent future. Knowing someone is seen and appreciated for their kindnesses is a huge encouragement.
Toxic people do not deserve to stay in your life. If they won't listen to you and learn not to hurt you, they dont get a place in your future!
Toxic people do not deserve to stay in your life. If they won't listen to you and learn not to hurt you, they dont get a place in your future!
Consent pt. 2: No meas no, no matter how many yes's came first. Listen to your partner, don't abuse your position or station, don't lie to get laid. And if you see something, say something. We only move forward if we do it all together, arm in arm.
Consent pt. 2: No meas no, no matter how many yes's came first. Listen to your partner, don't abuse your position or station, don't lie to get laid. And if you see something, say something. We only move forward if we do it all together, arm in arm.
Consent: It must be active, affirmative, informed, and freely given. For some things, this is tricky, like exhibition: it's fun, but not everyone who can see will want to, they did not consent! We can not inflict our kinks on others, so play responsibly.
Consent: It must be active, affirmative, informed, and freely given. For some things, this is tricky, like exhibition: it's fun, but not everyone who can see will want to, they did not consent! We can not inflict our kinks on others, so play responsibly.
Body self-image is a right prick. It is colored by so many factors, from the current culture to your own personal tastes. When you look in a mirror, dont look at *expectations* of what a person should look like. Just look at *you*.
Body self-image is a right prick. It is colored by so many factors, from the current culture to your own personal tastes. When you look in a mirror, dont look at *expectations* of what a person should look like. Just look at *you*.
Context matters. Every piece of sponsored information is designed to sell a particular message. When you see news/reports/data, ask why they showed it, where they got the information, & what they have to gain. They want to persuade you, make it hard for them
Context matters. Every piece of sponsored information is designed to sell a particular message. When you see news/reports/data, ask why they showed it, where they got the information, & what they have to gain. They want to persuade you, make it hard for them
We cannot continue coexisting in a world where our mistakes or actions are someone else's problem to fix. Start with yourself. Hold yourself accountable for your actions, and accept the repercussions. And then stand up and demand others do the same thing.
We cannot continue coexisting in a world where our mistakes or actions are someone else's problem to fix. Start with yourself. Hold yourself accountable for your actions, and accept the repercussions. And then stand up and demand others do the same thing.
Let's talk about porn. Porn can get in the way of a good time.
I fully advocate enjoying porn, but like all gratification, be mindful of your consumption. You have to moderate your enjoyment and not lose touch with your life or your needs.
Let's talk about porn. Porn can get in the way of a good time.
I fully advocate enjoying porn, but like all gratification, be mindful of your consumption. You have to moderate your enjoyment and not lose touch with your life or your needs.
Let's talk about porn. It's fun, but it alters your view of a healthy sex life and can be an addiction. Like any good thing, be mindful of your consumption. You have to moderate your enjoyment and not lose touch with your life or your partners needs.
Let's talk about porn. It's fun, but it alters your view of a healthy sex life and can be an addiction. Like any good thing, be mindful of your consumption. You have to moderate your enjoyment and not lose touch with your life or your partners needs.
Stand up, stretch, do some light exercises, at least. We live on the internet, our bodies wrapped up like brine shrimp. We've got to move around often. Google stretches to do. Go for a short walk every now and again! Do *something*.
Stand up, stretch, do some light exercises, at least. We live on the internet, our bodies wrapped up like brine shrimp. We've got to move around often. Google stretches to do. Go for a short walk every now and again! Do *something*.
Help those in need so we can stand together. Be patient, be understanding. Nurture love, life, hobbies, and learning. I saw a quote from like...2016? that I like, "I'm going to wake up and try to do good, and so are you, and nobody gets to vote on that."
Help those in need so we can stand together. Be patient, be understanding. Nurture love, life, hobbies, and learning. I saw a quote from like...2016? that I like, "I'm going to wake up and try to do good, and so are you, and nobody gets to vote on that."
Some days you can only do basic chores. But when you can do more, consider prioritizing chores based on things that you only have to do once. Things that stay off the list for a while once completed. It'll make the next chore day that much less overwhelming.
Some days you can only do basic chores. But when you can do more, consider prioritizing chores based on things that you only have to do once. Things that stay off the list for a while once completed. It'll make the next chore day that much less overwhelming.
Roomba cleaning: a cleaning style where you just wander around and pick stuff up where you see it. No pattern, nothing gets done completely, but everywhere you go is a little better off, and it's still work. Celebrate the day's work, progress is progress.
Roomba cleaning: a cleaning style where you just wander around and pick stuff up where you see it. No pattern, nothing gets done completely, but everywhere you go is a little better off, and it's still work. Celebrate the day's work, progress is progress.