I am so, so, so lucky. I have head coach quality in temperament, teaching and coaching ability, and just "do I enjoy around being this other dad?" coaches with me in soccer and baseball. Basketball, we have the same dads and awesome moms but the league structure is odd? Basketball is the oddball!

Only four years in across three sports though and I felt this in my bones.

I say this with all the respect ever: there are very few scenarios where gambling doesn't lead to that kind of alleged behavior

They could make $10 billion and be making $500 bets. It won't make sense until you consider what gambling does to (a lot of people's) brains.