oh my god im gonna cry 😭💙

I cant know what was in their heart at the time. I believe they provided too little context, which lead to disagreements and things that were said but not meant, and as unfortunate as that is, i do not believe they ever did it out of malice.

ILY bestieeeee

That being said i do owe you an apology. what i said and did was immature and distasteful in every sense and i am deeply ashamed of those actions. it was never my intention to make you uncomfortable, and i am sincerely sorry for having done that to you.

I know i said i was done responding but this one is important to me.
TBH i didnt remember your name. I did at the time try to reach out to apologize after learning i had made you uncomfortable but i was already blocked and couldnt send the message.

Think what you want, but at least I'm not petty or cowardly enough to talk shit about people behind their back. Thanks for proving that about yourself.
Deuces, bitch.

Obviously this doesn't work for traumatic experiences though. If that's the case please seek professional counseling/therapy and find support and safety in your loved ones. Life is precious and worth protecting.

I also find it interesting that you chose to attack them while adressing me, when i never said i came to defend them. I came to clear my own name and try to change your perspective.

And to further clarify, I didn't "have to stop myself" from saying it, I only said that the word entered my brain and shocked me.

Lastly:
Let's be civil for a sec and not namedrop people just because we're upset.

Third:
No one is stalking your TL. Like you said, we share a portion of our social circles, and had your post pop up on my homepage.
Fourth:
Show me exactly where they lie about you in their posts, because I seriously doubt they did, and if they did, I'd like to find out why.

Secondly:
I sent the card as a joke because of the things being said in the server and in VC, and immediately regretted it, to the point where I messaged my friend and asked if I went too far as soon as I could (I was at work and could not respond immediately).

Okay so first off:
Never in the posts did I start bragging about saying anything. I told them I was given a pass, but would never use it because its a disgusting word that should never be uttered by anyone.

Ranting about something you /assume/ I did based on something you heard, when you yourself acknowledge the fact that you aren't getting the full story, is a little absurd, I think.
Because a person who knows they need more info should probably infer that a conclusion made without data is not correct

Hey, friend of your ex-friend in question here. I'd really appreciate it if we could talk like adults about this rather than continue letting you throw false accusations at the proverbial wall and see if they stick.