I agree with this and think about it so much. Lesbian relationships can certainly be awful and abusive, but sometimes they exist in a very rule-less land. Tbh heterosexuality is so evil that I “agree” with some of its rules but also think they are contrary to healthy relationality.
November 22, 2025 at 12:52 PM
I agree with this and think about it so much. Lesbian relationships can certainly be awful and abusive, but sometimes they exist in a very rule-less land. Tbh heterosexuality is so evil that I “agree” with some of its rules but also think they are contrary to healthy relationality.
This is why I feel many versions of “restorative justice” for abusers are predatory. I wanted RJ so bad at first and retrospectively feel happy my friends were like “fuck this guy”
November 19, 2025 at 8:52 PM
This is why I feel many versions of “restorative justice” for abusers are predatory. I wanted RJ so bad at first and retrospectively feel happy my friends were like “fuck this guy”
The idea that t could make a gay person less gay…
November 19, 2025 at 8:49 PM
The idea that t could make a gay person less gay…
It bothers me a lot because if people understood sexual violence they wouldn’t be all conspiracy theory ish about this
November 15, 2025 at 5:53 AM
It bothers me a lot because if people understood sexual violence they wouldn’t be all conspiracy theory ish about this
At the end of her book about her mom Simone de Beauvoir asserted death itself was bad and an injustice and it felt so deliciously scandalous the way she said it
November 15, 2025 at 5:50 AM
At the end of her book about her mom Simone de Beauvoir asserted death itself was bad and an injustice and it felt so deliciously scandalous the way she said it
I think too many people see rape as something powerful people get away with, when it’s really a means of gaining and amassing power, even if that power is meager in comparison to Epstein etc
November 14, 2025 at 2:18 PM
I think too many people see rape as something powerful people get away with, when it’s really a means of gaining and amassing power, even if that power is meager in comparison to Epstein etc
I started at 42! But I cry more 😭
November 13, 2025 at 11:13 AM
I started at 42! But I cry more 😭
When you posted saying you didn’t get it I was going to reply with the time I forgot about the job and then got a notification that the training was the next day. I called them and they were like “oh we forgot to tell you you got the job.”
November 11, 2025 at 11:15 PM
When you posted saying you didn’t get it I was going to reply with the time I forgot about the job and then got a notification that the training was the next day. I called them and they were like “oh we forgot to tell you you got the job.”
As a teacher and scholar on literacy this is so enraging but unbelievably common. Coincidentally, the “nicer” option of denying poor readers exists requires a less skilled and supported teaching staff…
November 11, 2025 at 10:39 PM
As a teacher and scholar on literacy this is so enraging but unbelievably common. Coincidentally, the “nicer” option of denying poor readers exists requires a less skilled and supported teaching staff…
I don’t even try to avoid this anymore. The tutorials don’t work. The only way is fully inside
November 10, 2025 at 11:14 AM
I don’t even try to avoid this anymore. The tutorials don’t work. The only way is fully inside
If I was tall I’d make such good use of my tallness
November 7, 2025 at 11:35 PM
If I was tall I’d make such good use of my tallness
I cannot fucking stand Schumer and call him frequently to tell him this, but in this case I think he did this for show, and it’s not the worst show
November 7, 2025 at 9:01 PM
I cannot fucking stand Schumer and call him frequently to tell him this, but in this case I think he did this for show, and it’s not the worst show
He has been a known abuser for at least ten years, and people who knew him new him as such for at least 20
November 7, 2025 at 1:30 PM
He has been a known abuser for at least ten years, and people who knew him new him as such for at least 20
And yeah I remember once pre-covid wearing a mask to my oncology appointment when I had a cold and every worker was thankful and I’m like well I feel like masking while sick especially at the cancer doctor is a no brainer! Or should be.
November 5, 2025 at 9:19 PM
And yeah I remember once pre-covid wearing a mask to my oncology appointment when I had a cold and every worker was thankful and I’m like well I feel like masking while sick especially at the cancer doctor is a no brainer! Or should be.
I cannot tell you how bitter I still am about how Covid activism started centering around masks in opposition to vaccines. And I’m a person who still masks quite a bit. Novavax discourse also has a lot of covert anti-vaxxers
November 5, 2025 at 9:17 PM
I cannot tell you how bitter I still am about how Covid activism started centering around masks in opposition to vaccines. And I’m a person who still masks quite a bit. Novavax discourse also has a lot of covert anti-vaxxers
Like I just did it because I had been wanting to for awhile and like 60% of my friends were trans and it’s like why not? Now I’m a t-lesbian and have never been happier
November 1, 2025 at 9:40 PM
Like I just did it because I had been wanting to for awhile and like 60% of my friends were trans and it’s like why not? Now I’m a t-lesbian and have never been happier
Right like I think everyone should try hrt. I think it’s a good thing
November 1, 2025 at 9:38 PM
Right like I think everyone should try hrt. I think it’s a good thing
Really think healthcare should include a clothing stipend for people who just went on HRT cause damn it’s a learning curve!
October 26, 2025 at 12:21 PM
Really think healthcare should include a clothing stipend for people who just went on HRT cause damn it’s a learning curve!
Well on my fantasy political discussion platform we can’t 😭. Actually, on weekends, this platform will actually wipe both bernie sanders and Hilary Clinton from users’ memories, to see what happens to conversation if everyone forgot the stupid lines their battle made us draw.
October 24, 2025 at 8:16 PM
Well on my fantasy political discussion platform we can’t 😭. Actually, on weekends, this platform will actually wipe both bernie sanders and Hilary Clinton from users’ memories, to see what happens to conversation if everyone forgot the stupid lines their battle made us draw.
I always say if I could create a platform for discussing politics, the only rule is no saying “Bernie” or “Hilary.” They both are good and suck equally and what’s represented in their opposition is not how I want to go about thinking about a political future.
October 24, 2025 at 6:06 PM
I always say if I could create a platform for discussing politics, the only rule is no saying “Bernie” or “Hilary.” They both are good and suck equally and what’s represented in their opposition is not how I want to go about thinking about a political future.
Let’s not forget shaun king.
October 22, 2025 at 12:16 PM
Let’s not forget shaun king.
This is me but when I remember the argument that homeschooling is not at all deficient (or home is “safer” than school). (And I still mask *a lot* btw)
October 20, 2025 at 3:22 AM
This is me but when I remember the argument that homeschooling is not at all deficient (or home is “safer” than school). (And I still mask *a lot* btw)
I get a sick feeling of satisfaction from deleting a portion of writing I love and am deeply emotionally invested in but just doesn’t fit with the bigger piece
October 20, 2025 at 2:22 AM
I get a sick feeling of satisfaction from deleting a portion of writing I love and am deeply emotionally invested in but just doesn’t fit with the bigger piece