No worries, the biggest help has been the emotional support from the community, statements like the ones you just expressed. Truly. These types of struggles are made harder by how lonely they can be. This is hard, but without community, I know it would be much harder. I only feel blessed.

No worries at all! Thank you for letting me know, for asking to double check in the first place, and for thinking of us.

Sorry, it would be preferable now to use this one, my personal Venmo link. Thank you for asking!

venmo.com/code?user_id...

Here is the eBay listing of the item, with the buy out price reflecting the fundraising goal. Signed by Death Cab for Cutie members Ben Gibbard, Jason McGerr, and Nick Harmer, and former Seattle Mariner José Caballero.

ebay.us/m/ZxNeb1

I didn't take it that way at all, I completely understand your position and don't mind at all! Thank you so much for taking the time to consider, and all appreciation and thanks for anything you can donate, we are very grateful.