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What do you think would bring you the most peace? Is it confronting them, writing a letter you don’t send, or finding a way to honor your husband that feels true to you? Sometimes closure doesn’t come from the other person but from what we do with our own emotions.

That feeling of unfinished business can be really heavy, especially when the hurt runs deep. It sounds like there’s something unresolved—maybe words left unsaid, justice not served, or emotions that still need to be processed.

I feel there is unfinished business in my heart

How did those conversations and therapy sessions make you feel? Did they help bring any sense of relief, or do you still feel like there’s unfinished business in your heart?

That’s really strong of you—to talk about it, seek support, and even go to therapy. It shows that you’re actively trying to process your emotions rather than letting them consume you. But healing isn’t always a straight path, and anger can linger, especially when betrayal is involved.

I talked to with my friend,my son and went for therapy

Prayer and meditation are powerful, but healing also takes time. Have you been able to talk to someone you trust about this—family, a close friend, or even a counselor? Sometimes saying it out loud can help release some of that anger.

But please don’t be hard on yourself about anything.You were already dealing with so much—loss, pain, and shock. Protecting his memory and your love for him doesn’t have to be about that one moment; it’s about how you continue to honor him, the life you built together, and the love you still carry.

Your feelings are completely valid. What they did was deeply hurtful, and it’s understandable that you’re still angry. You were grieving, yet they put you in a position where you felt attacked and powerless. That’s a heavy burden to carry.

It’s hard,been praying, meditating however I’m still angry of what they did and I feel I should have stood up for my husband

Grief affects people differently, but that doesn’t excuse his actions. Instead of standing by you, he made things harder. That must have been so isolating for you. How have you been coping with all of this since then?

It’s shocking that his twin brother reacted that way over something so personal between you and your husband. It wasn’t his place to dictate your marriage, and his response—rudeness, allowing his wife to insult you, and making a hurtful speech—was deeply unfair.

That sounds incredibly painful, and I can see why you feel betrayed. At a time when you were grieving the loss of your husband, you also had to deal with anger, disrespect, and sabotage from someone who should have been offering support.

The twin brother was angry that my husband didn’t tell him that we legally consumed our marriage,He felt furious that He was not told for some reason,he was rude to me ,his wife insulted me,they sabotaged his funeral arrangements and He made atrocious speech about my husband that shocked most people

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Losing your husband is already heartbreaking, and feeling betrayed by someone so close to him—his twin brother—must make it even harder. what happened that made you feel betrayed? Sometimes just talking about it can help ease the weight a little.

I miss my husband and I feel his twin brother betrayed me on his death