♿ Hilary Brown
@hilarybrownpoet.bsky.social
Writer, crip, epileptiqueer. Owned by 3 cats.
My heart is broken and I have bills to pay. Man that sucks.
August 13, 2025 at 9:00 PM
My heart is broken and I have bills to pay. Man that sucks.
My family isn't wealthy. They can't simply give me the money I need. Both my parents and I are surviving off Social Security.
June 13, 2025 at 4:58 PM
My family isn't wealthy. They can't simply give me the money I need. Both my parents and I are surviving off Social Security.
which I can't reach because my disability prevents me from driving.
I don't know how I will get by without some kind of support. I've been a fool allowing someone I thought loved me to live off of my income and destroy my home. I don't know what to do. I can't get by without some help.
I don't know how I will get by without some kind of support. I've been a fool allowing someone I thought loved me to live off of my income and destroy my home. I don't know what to do. I can't get by without some help.
June 13, 2025 at 4:58 PM
which I can't reach because my disability prevents me from driving.
I don't know how I will get by without some kind of support. I've been a fool allowing someone I thought loved me to live off of my income and destroy my home. I don't know what to do. I can't get by without some help.
I don't know how I will get by without some kind of support. I've been a fool allowing someone I thought loved me to live off of my income and destroy my home. I don't know what to do. I can't get by without some help.
When I told them that they would still need to repay me for the money they had borrowed and the rent they had not paid, they simply scoffed and walked away. They now insist I must bring their bicycles (about 5) and all their other stuff (there's a lot) to their parents' home in the suburbs,
June 13, 2025 at 4:57 PM
When I told them that they would still need to repay me for the money they had borrowed and the rent they had not paid, they simply scoffed and walked away. They now insist I must bring their bicycles (about 5) and all their other stuff (there's a lot) to their parents' home in the suburbs,
I made spreadsheets last night that show the purchases I know of and the rent that they rarely paid over the last 2 years we were together. If anyone needs to see these spreadsheets so they are aware, so they believe me, I am willing to show them.
June 13, 2025 at 4:56 PM
I made spreadsheets last night that show the purchases I know of and the rent that they rarely paid over the last 2 years we were together. If anyone needs to see these spreadsheets so they are aware, so they believe me, I am willing to show them.
Right now, I have $20 in my bank account and no way to pay my monthly bills. I have been supporting my now ex-partner for the last 2 years, even though I am on disability and receiving a very low income. I have been cleaning up for them and paying for all of their needs and a lot of their wants.
June 13, 2025 at 4:55 PM
Right now, I have $20 in my bank account and no way to pay my monthly bills. I have been supporting my now ex-partner for the last 2 years, even though I am on disability and receiving a very low income. I have been cleaning up for them and paying for all of their needs and a lot of their wants.
telling them to shower, brush their teeth, help clean up after themselves- and getting the same negative response a parent does, too.
June 13, 2025 at 4:54 PM
telling them to shower, brush their teeth, help clean up after themselves- and getting the same negative response a parent does, too.
This wasn't easy to do, and I am heartbroken. I believed that they were the love of my life, but their behavior had been unacceptable for months, and I found myself behaving more as a parent to them than as a partner-
June 13, 2025 at 4:54 PM
This wasn't easy to do, and I am heartbroken. I believed that they were the love of my life, but their behavior had been unacceptable for months, and I found myself behaving more as a parent to them than as a partner-
The day after my birthday, they confessed to me that they hadn't been on medication for at least a week and that was why they had lost control and put the hole in the wall. Taking their medication regularly was a hard boundary and something they had promised to do. I broke up with them.
June 13, 2025 at 4:52 PM
The day after my birthday, they confessed to me that they hadn't been on medication for at least a week and that was why they had lost control and put the hole in the wall. Taking their medication regularly was a hard boundary and something they had promised to do. I broke up with them.
On Saturday, my partner was upset that I told them they needed to work because they were several thousands of dollars in debt to me. When I left home, they put a hole in my wall, which is plaster, so they had to use some effort.
June 13, 2025 at 4:50 PM
On Saturday, my partner was upset that I told them they needed to work because they were several thousands of dollars in debt to me. When I left home, they put a hole in my wall, which is plaster, so they had to use some effort.
Bluesky won't let me share the fundraiser, so I copied the story:
I'm sure my friends know, but I had to take the necessary step of breaking up with my partner when their impulsive and erratic behavior worsened and they began damaging my property.
I'm sure my friends know, but I had to take the necessary step of breaking up with my partner when their impulsive and erratic behavior worsened and they began damaging my property.
June 13, 2025 at 4:49 PM
Bluesky won't let me share the fundraiser, so I copied the story:
I'm sure my friends know, but I had to take the necessary step of breaking up with my partner when their impulsive and erratic behavior worsened and they began damaging my property.
I'm sure my friends know, but I had to take the necessary step of breaking up with my partner when their impulsive and erratic behavior worsened and they began damaging my property.