H. Wren D'Arcy
@hexwren.bsky.social
been having a midlife crisis since 1993. trans nb, gay and tired (she/they). ancient in internet years and real ones, too. occasional writer (smut, comedy).
once again i am annoyed that there are too many bands out there with similar enough names that i end up confusing one for the other
tonight's instigators/victims: promise ring and purity ring
tonight's instigators/victims: promise ring and purity ring
November 6, 2025 at 1:07 PM
once again i am annoyed that there are too many bands out there with similar enough names that i end up confusing one for the other
tonight's instigators/victims: promise ring and purity ring
tonight's instigators/victims: promise ring and purity ring
tired of analog horror, show me analog delight
stop weaponizing the aesthetic of my nostalgia for feel-bad experiences
stop weaponizing the aesthetic of my nostalgia for feel-bad experiences
September 20, 2025 at 10:47 PM
tired of analog horror, show me analog delight
stop weaponizing the aesthetic of my nostalgia for feel-bad experiences
stop weaponizing the aesthetic of my nostalgia for feel-bad experiences
so why does my profile say 13 people are following me, then you click on that link and it only lists five names?
September 14, 2025 at 12:11 PM
so why does my profile say 13 people are following me, then you click on that link and it only lists five names?
just used "twigging to the ruse" in a work chat, wondering how long it's going to be before i get yelled at again for making official communications require too high of a reading level
August 30, 2025 at 3:22 AM
just used "twigging to the ruse" in a work chat, wondering how long it's going to be before i get yelled at again for making official communications require too high of a reading level
scrolling discovery again in the hope i find people to follow, and still side-eyeing the results
August 9, 2025 at 12:47 AM
scrolling discovery again in the hope i find people to follow, and still side-eyeing the results
art imitates life, in that in the last week or so, I've picked up a project I've been neglecting for most of the last few years, having started it in 2019 and the last major changes having been made in 2022
June 21, 2025 at 6:41 AM
art imitates life, in that in the last week or so, I've picked up a project I've been neglecting for most of the last few years, having started it in 2019 and the last major changes having been made in 2022
still annoyed that i can't follow automatically-posting accounts because i don't follow enough accounts in general, meaning anything that posts every hour automatically (no pun intended) posts far more than the rest of the accounts i follow, combined
April 11, 2025 at 2:44 AM
still annoyed that i can't follow automatically-posting accounts because i don't follow enough accounts in general, meaning anything that posts every hour automatically (no pun intended) posts far more than the rest of the accounts i follow, combined
I'm clearly using this wrong - my discover tab is virtually identical to my following tab, and my "popular with others" tab or whatever it's called consists of exactly three posts currently
February 20, 2025 at 4:48 AM
I'm clearly using this wrong - my discover tab is virtually identical to my following tab, and my "popular with others" tab or whatever it's called consists of exactly three posts currently
I don't use this much, because I find it hard to find anyone I know on here, and/or, really I don't know very many people. But I'm thinking I might try again! Who knows, maybe this time it'll work.
February 7, 2024 at 8:33 PM
I don't use this much, because I find it hard to find anyone I know on here, and/or, really I don't know very many people. But I'm thinking I might try again! Who knows, maybe this time it'll work.
got bored, punnett square time.
yes, this is because I was in the international aisle at the grocery store today
yes, this is because I was in the international aisle at the grocery store today
December 4, 2023 at 8:07 AM
got bored, punnett square time.
yes, this is because I was in the international aisle at the grocery store today
yes, this is because I was in the international aisle at the grocery store today
waiting for the metric standards to be published for the thresholds of force that differentiate getting fingered from getting fingerbanged from getting fingerblasted
November 9, 2023 at 3:50 AM
waiting for the metric standards to be published for the thresholds of force that differentiate getting fingered from getting fingerbanged from getting fingerblasted
sweatin' to the oldies?
no. sweatin' to music\nick cave and the bad seeds\henry's dream\02_i_had_a_dream,_joe.flac
no. sweatin' to music\nick cave and the bad seeds\henry's dream\02_i_had_a_dream,_joe.flac
November 7, 2023 at 6:50 AM
sweatin' to the oldies?
no. sweatin' to music\nick cave and the bad seeds\henry's dream\02_i_had_a_dream,_joe.flac
no. sweatin' to music\nick cave and the bad seeds\henry's dream\02_i_had_a_dream,_joe.flac
man, do i even have anything to talk about that isn't sad?
fuck, no wonder i don't got friends
fuck, no wonder i don't got friends
November 7, 2023 at 6:31 AM
man, do i even have anything to talk about that isn't sad?
fuck, no wonder i don't got friends
fuck, no wonder i don't got friends
at the gym for the first time since forever in the small hope that moving around more might help stop the headaches
November 7, 2023 at 6:30 AM
at the gym for the first time since forever in the small hope that moving around more might help stop the headaches
damn, people can make it so that they only see your replies if enough other people like it?
how the fuck is anyone meant to talk to anyone else on this platform if they don't already have a hundred friends
idgi. tempted to give up on this and go back to mastodon
how the fuck is anyone meant to talk to anyone else on this platform if they don't already have a hundred friends
idgi. tempted to give up on this and go back to mastodon
November 7, 2023 at 6:28 AM
damn, people can make it so that they only see your replies if enough other people like it?
how the fuck is anyone meant to talk to anyone else on this platform if they don't already have a hundred friends
idgi. tempted to give up on this and go back to mastodon
how the fuck is anyone meant to talk to anyone else on this platform if they don't already have a hundred friends
idgi. tempted to give up on this and go back to mastodon
trying to get through the last few hours of the work week by clamping the headphones down and blasting sparks until it all goes away
November 4, 2023 at 3:04 AM
trying to get through the last few hours of the work week by clamping the headphones down and blasting sparks until it all goes away
disliking how following broadly-popular accounts, like ones for cat photos, mostly results in being followed by click-farmer accounts
like
i want to connect with people, but the site seems to be going out of its way to tell me to just post alone into the void
sheesh
like
i want to connect with people, but the site seems to be going out of its way to tell me to just post alone into the void
sheesh
November 3, 2023 at 1:44 AM
disliking how following broadly-popular accounts, like ones for cat photos, mostly results in being followed by click-farmer accounts
like
i want to connect with people, but the site seems to be going out of its way to tell me to just post alone into the void
sheesh
like
i want to connect with people, but the site seems to be going out of its way to tell me to just post alone into the void
sheesh
i still feel weird how quickly we as a culture flipped from socks and sandals being the height of fashion crimes to socks and crocs or socks and slides being normal and commendable comfort-wear for public use
November 3, 2023 at 12:33 AM
i still feel weird how quickly we as a culture flipped from socks and sandals being the height of fashion crimes to socks and crocs or socks and slides being normal and commendable comfort-wear for public use
The stupid, unending, daily debate with the self:
it's an hour or two before needing to get up and get ready for work.
a) more sleep?
b) some video games?
c) rub one out?
d) fail to choose one of these previous three options and stare at the internet unsatisfied until it is time to actually go
it's an hour or two before needing to get up and get ready for work.
a) more sleep?
b) some video games?
c) rub one out?
d) fail to choose one of these previous three options and stare at the internet unsatisfied until it is time to actually go
November 2, 2023 at 5:55 PM
The stupid, unending, daily debate with the self:
it's an hour or two before needing to get up and get ready for work.
a) more sleep?
b) some video games?
c) rub one out?
d) fail to choose one of these previous three options and stare at the internet unsatisfied until it is time to actually go
it's an hour or two before needing to get up and get ready for work.
a) more sleep?
b) some video games?
c) rub one out?
d) fail to choose one of these previous three options and stare at the internet unsatisfied until it is time to actually go
it is real fuckin annoying to try and eat a lollipop while wearing a mask
November 1, 2023 at 10:01 PM
it is real fuckin annoying to try and eat a lollipop while wearing a mask
reading other people's accounts to learn how to Post like a blueskyer or twitterer because my posting comes from a much different place and I feel weird trying to condense paragraphs of thought down to a few hundred characters
dysphoria of thoughts, these are not the words i would have used myself
dysphoria of thoughts, these are not the words i would have used myself
October 31, 2023 at 7:51 PM
reading other people's accounts to learn how to Post like a blueskyer or twitterer because my posting comes from a much different place and I feel weird trying to condense paragraphs of thought down to a few hundred characters
dysphoria of thoughts, these are not the words i would have used myself
dysphoria of thoughts, these are not the words i would have used myself
I don't often do much of anything for Halloween, I'm more of a recovering-goth-still-listening-to-Wolfsheim-in-June type, but I have to at least make the attempt to dress up a bit and gpose in FF14.
October 29, 2023 at 7:41 AM
I don't often do much of anything for Halloween, I'm more of a recovering-goth-still-listening-to-Wolfsheim-in-June type, but I have to at least make the attempt to dress up a bit and gpose in FF14.
need to get new people to follow so it doesn't look like I'm just stalking the few that I have followed so far
argh
argh
October 28, 2023 at 7:41 PM
need to get new people to follow so it doesn't look like I'm just stalking the few that I have followed so far
argh
argh
it'd be cool if i could say dumb shit on the internet and not get roasted for it
idk what that takes
idk what that takes
October 28, 2023 at 4:32 AM
it'd be cool if i could say dumb shit on the internet and not get roasted for it
idk what that takes
idk what that takes
i don't really dance to anything but I'm still really feeling called out by the dead milkmen
October 28, 2023 at 4:17 AM
i don't really dance to anything but I'm still really feeling called out by the dead milkmen