I think I'm finding my position on this. I'm privileged to have well paying vanilla profession. I want a sub who values me. This should be expressed by an exchange of value. It's not about market value, but value relative. I want both of us to come into this with some gravitas that only getting 1/

If a guys says unprompted "I'll do anything for you" that should include paying me for my time. Clearly, some men don't mean that lol

Ahh yes! The namesake--being a witch, using magic to turn men into pigs, Getting tricked by the hero, falling in love with him and then getting fucking LAID by the hottie. Hell yeah. Goals.

I have found nothing quite as tiring as trying to respond to "how can I serve you mistress?" When I just worked 12 hours. Like I dunno, figure it out for me???

Random encounter with a sub who reaches out to me cold. We talk for a bit, I understand the kinks and I KNOW he's desperately horny. I set a boundary of "if you'd like me to focus, offer me something valuable". Begging. "I'll pay you tomorrow". Ok. I wait. Next day? They disappeared. 🤷‍♀️💔🤷‍♀️

I have a full time career that I love and a family, but I LOVE dominating men. There seems to be way more subs than dommes. I talk to subs regularly and I'm barely active online. I enjoy talking online and degrading the shit out of subs. But like this 24/7 access is draining! 1/

In this whole dang world there is nothing quite like the hot heat of desire. Something so unique about the sharp arrow of WANT from a man. I lovelovelove holding that space for a guy and pouring fuel on the fire and letting him just just just WANT. It feels holy to me. #tease #denial #domme