i think more because they don’t know/care what doxxing is, they just wanted a Big Bad Word to throw around

don’t worry so are they

and when they finally push someone to their fucking limit and get a tiny taste of what they’ve been dishing out, they drop to the floor and scream that they’re being bullied

their accusation that lovelyletters is just for sending letters to the blog runner’s friends is 1. demonstrably untrue and 2. irrelevant? like what would the problem even be if it was just the blog runner’s friends? why are they so insistent that it’s toxic/unfair to have friends?

the speech bubbles made me laugh out loud, congrats

I don’t really want to speak about this more than I have because again, I don’t come to fandom for any of this, I come here to escape the horrors of my real life, but here is the post I made at the time in the face of all this with more of my thoughts, if you want em 💖 www.tumblr.com/soupbtch/783...

In my experience when people get to the "naming names" stage they have tried everything else. Safe to assume this is like.... step 20. Not step 1.

the bulk of the behavior that's running people off tumblr, also, is not even ostensibly about racism; it's stuff like constantly showing up to scold anyone who writes crackships, or who affectionately dunks on stede, or who mentions jack without pausing to specify that he's pure evil.

but this is what happens whenever you say anything they disagree with. it's never just 'i see it differently but okay!' it's 'i see it differently because i am objectively right, which makes me Correct and Good, and you are Wrong and Bad and i wish you'd stop acting in this problematic way'

so if you're sat thinking 'oh shit i thought i was the only one', please know you are absolutely not alone in being sad and tired.

anyway! as you were have a lovely evening x

5/5

playing in a space where my friends have already packed up and left or they're quiet bc they daren't post anything bc they can't be arsed with the inevitable puritanical vagueposting that results.

4/5

yes i've blocked them (and earned some vagueposts about how blocking is akin to ostracising and bullying people in the process). but they're all over the place, adding paragraphs of self righteous chastisement to every post they disagree with multiple times a day, and i don't want to keep

3/?