Helena Stacy
helenastacy.bsky.social
Helena Stacy
@helenastacy.bsky.social
Novelist and essayist, big ol’ nerd, hopeless romantic (not necessarily in that order).
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Like, yeah, I get what the image in popular consciousness is, but I cannot emphasize enough how much, in the actual trans femme community, t4t is considered the default and t4c is considered the exception to the rule
November 17, 2025 at 10:29 PM
So no, trans women are not trying to trick cis men or turn straight men gay. The amount of us who even date cishet men to begin with is tiny (and I say that as one who does sometimes date cishet men, albeit with mixed results)
#dating #love
November 17, 2025 at 10:22 PM
If you’re unaware, t4t means trans for trans, and statistically it’s what most of us go for. I think like 80% of trans women are with trans women (and good chunk of the remaining 20% date either trans men or nonbinary folks)
#dating
November 17, 2025 at 10:22 PM
Idk it hits me as a “tell me you think trans women want to ‘trick’ cis men without telling me you think trans women want to trick cis men” thing
November 17, 2025 at 10:22 PM
Excellent
November 16, 2025 at 7:48 PM
The couple that beats up fascists together stays together ❤️❤️❤️ #wondertrev
November 16, 2025 at 6:28 PM
❤️
November 10, 2025 at 6:24 PM
Yup! So epic 🤩🤩🤩
November 7, 2025 at 2:10 PM