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Transgender, vegetarian, environmentalist, contrarian, immigrant... You have been warned!!
Great video and so true.
I began my transition at the age of 45, so I missed sooooo much. While I do feel the loss of experiences that I never had I look at what I did achieve, while I was fighting that constant battle with myself.
and I look at all the possibilities going forward.
September 18, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Hey Jessie, thanks for sharing this, I think it is important for people to see the vial hate that trans folks face, particularly online. Words that don't simply state an opinion, but are intended to cause harm.
Stay strong and take care of yourself 💪 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈💪
September 15, 2025 at 11:13 AM
Any ethical hackers here?
August 9, 2025 at 3:51 PM
Wish I had seen this earlier!!!
I definitely need to be more of a menace!
July 13, 2025 at 11:26 PM
I think the real answer here is decisions regarding gender affirming care should be between doctors and their patients. Politicians and ill informed public should play absolutely no role in this process.
June 2, 2025 at 7:11 PM
I can't speak for Abigail, but my first feelings of dysphoria occurred around the age of 5, however I didn't have the vocabulary or knowledge to understand what I was feeling, so I had no way to tell anyone.
June 2, 2025 at 7:07 PM
How about the state of gender affirming care in the province?

We have one transgender health specialist for the entire province. There are people that need care and simply can't get it.
June 1, 2025 at 10:42 AM
Congratulations 🎉
May 24, 2025 at 5:01 PM
I subscribed a few years ago, but don't use YouTube much anymore.
Have you considered becoming a nebula creator?
May 22, 2025 at 1:55 PM
Yep, been there!!
A necessary part of growing into womanhood.
May 19, 2025 at 2:11 PM
Another great video Hannah!

The supreme Court ruling came down while I was visiting my family in the UK and it was a genuinely odd feeling being visibly trans in public in the days after the ruling.
Am I going to be challenged when I use the ladies room? Do people now see me as a threat?
May 17, 2025 at 10:45 AM
Some major backward steps for the LGBTQ community in the UK recently. I really wonder if the changes in policy reflect the will of the public or that of a small vocal minority.
I have always felt safe and accepted as a visibly trans woman visiting the UK.
May 15, 2025 at 11:30 AM
As a former resident of the New Forest and a transgender woman I am excited to see the progress you are making in the region.
There will be backlash, but most importantly there will be conversation and hopefully more acceptance and understanding of our community.
May 15, 2025 at 11:16 AM
Yay Hannah, yay Bournemouth!!!
May 11, 2025 at 6:45 PM
Depicting someone as a woman in an attempt to humiliate them... Pretty demeaning to women wouldn't you say?

Context, I am trans and seeing myself as a freakish caricature of a woman was a major barrier to me accepting myself as trans.
May 4, 2025 at 8:52 AM
I wish I had known, I am in the country visiting family!

Any suggestions on how I can keep up in LGBTQ events in the Bournemouth Salisbury Southampton area?
April 26, 2025 at 11:32 PM
That's really encouraging, I needed this news today!
April 23, 2025 at 11:25 PM