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Ben
@headfullofben.bsky.social
Work in supply chain. Gay. "Commie trash." 30-something.
Live in Minnesota. He/Him/They
🚫TERFs
This has been a truly painful week.
My boyfriend and I broke up, and it was a very hard few days. I started to feel better yesterday and last night my grandfather passed away.

Tell the people in your life you love them, every chance you can.
April 10, 2025 at 5:10 PM
Hello Bluesky, it's been a while!
Many many many things have changed!

I sold my house, moved back to the Minneapolis metro, am in a new relationship, and have a new job title.
Hope everyone is surviving if not thriving <3
February 27, 2025 at 9:08 PM
Zombie pub crawl!
October 12, 2024 at 8:15 PM
Today, was not a good day.
I am physically okay (sore neck and shoulder), but I’m pretty sure she’s totaled…
September 20, 2024 at 2:25 AM
Had such an amazing weekend visiting @realflygon.bsky.social
Met a lot of fantastic people, ate some amazing food, enjoyed a theme park adventure and a night out at the bars, and fell in love with a new city. Can’t wait for the next time! 😊
August 19, 2024 at 2:12 AM
😴😴
August 14, 2024 at 3:30 PM
With my governor being named Harris' VP pick, I encourage everyone to watch Drop Dead Gorgeous to get a real understanding of Minnesota culture.
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ALT: Drop Dead Gorgeous Movie GIF
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August 7, 2024 at 6:08 PM
Watching my nieces and nephews this weekend, was having a rough day until I got here and now I’m so happy. I love these kids to pieces 🥹
August 2, 2024 at 7:48 PM
I was doing laundry, dishes, vacuuming, and getting ready to shampoo the carpets upstairs… and the power went out.
So now I’m drinking truly in the backyard with the dog. If the universe wants to give me a break, who am I to question it?
July 25, 2024 at 12:34 AM
I don't know if anyone else needs to hear this today, but I did..
Grief isn't linear. It is not experienced in order start to finish nor in any set amount of time. Grief is something that eases, but never truly goes away. Grant yourself the grace necessary to grieve.
July 24, 2024 at 12:49 PM
So we’re all agreed it’s going to be Harris / Buttigieg right?? lol
In order to ease the insane racism and play the ultra progressive ticket I’d be willing to bet she announces him as her VP
July 21, 2024 at 7:17 PM
lol there were audible gasps in the restaurant I was at when Biden’s withdrawal was announced. For a moment the entire place was completely silent as everyone furiously tapped out a long form tweet about it
July 21, 2024 at 7:10 PM
Read through an entire job posting that literally matches my skills perfectly, pays significantly more than I make now... then get to the bottom and see it's for Raytheon.
What a let down lmao
July 17, 2024 at 2:59 PM
Realizing that there is no "youth" left in my body after getting excited that I can order the water/air filter combo for my refrigerator on Prime Day special for 45% off.
July 16, 2024 at 1:51 PM
Chase mode activated
We’ve got a tornado on the ground!
July 13, 2024 at 10:15 PM
The bigot protesters didn’t ruined this small town pride fest today.
But their constant talk of children, and the members who specifically approached children set off a lot of red flags #notadragqueen
July 13, 2024 at 9:34 PM
Oh hey, it was meetup night 2 😊
@realflygon.bsky.social can’t wait for the hometown tour from you!
July 13, 2024 at 7:27 AM
Having a fun night out with @realflygon.bsky.social in Minneapolis! 😊
July 12, 2024 at 4:19 AM
Me to the side I got drinks with when we were making hands under the table and their leg started to shake.
July 11, 2024 at 7:40 PM
Planned a Bluesky get together with one of my moots who is in town for GALA! Hopefully will have some pics to post later 😊
July 11, 2024 at 12:42 PM
Spent my entire day outside. A huge food festival in Minneapolis, and then a backyard grillout with old friends.
Hope everyone had a great Saturday 😊
July 7, 2024 at 1:43 AM
Logging on and trying to figure out what the fuck is going on on this website
July 2, 2024 at 6:55 PM
June 30, 2024 at 2:45 PM