I had to get to the point where this felt obviously true, and that the opposite felt genuinely confusing.
E.g. How I would be surprised if a car started floating upward

This morning I got punched in the stomach by "if you want the possibility of connection, you have to give up the certainty of safety"

I want to tweet about this, but I'm not sure hearing it is helpful. For me, I had to get to the point where it became hard to imagine otherwise