I suppose, I saw it more as she's conjured male anatomy to use so that's why she's referring to it as boydick because its not hers, she's just borrowing it.

But I see no issue with it being interpreted either way 🙂

The character is female and has used magic to temporarily give themselves a boy dick complete with a prostate for added pleasure, to me she didn't realise her magic conjured that up with the package.

So her calling it a boy dick is warranted as she hasn't changed her gender. Hope this helps 👍🏻