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Gray Miller
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Gray is a former Marine dancer grandpa visualist who writes to help adults figure out what they want to be when they grow up.

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I'm so glad @pluralistic wrote this so I dont't have to. (also he did a much better job than I could)

https://pluralistic.net/2025/12/05/pop-that-bubble/#u-washington
December 10, 2025 at 5:28 PM
Oof. “Loneliness does not come from having no people around you, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to you.” - Carl Jung
This combined with #adhd RSD really makes for a lonely, lonely life.
December 10, 2025 at 5:42 PM
Success! After 3 tries, I got the tech to work and filmed the first video for my upcoming #papermancy workshop!
5 more to go…plus livestreams…plus…oy. Good thing I enjoy this. HTTP://papermancy.art
December 5, 2025 at 3:39 AM
Been working on a project at papermancy.art . This is part of it - a wake-the-brain ritual that is gentler, more tactile, than morning pages for when your brain wants more of a warmup.
The exercise is called “dawmlines”
December 4, 2025 at 12:22 PM
Arts & crafts this week…really doubling down on the #bookbinding .
November 16, 2025 at 3:45 PM
A #handletteringart piece that will be a birthday gift for a close friend who is into chaos magic
November 2, 2025 at 6:02 PM
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A paramilitary force is a military force. What makes it “para” is that it is not the lawfully constituted military of nation. The people carrying out paramilitary operations are soldiers, not lawful ones, but still soldiers following orders and engaging in warfare. That’s ICE and CPB (Customs […]
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October 24, 2025 at 1:55 AM
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Turn off your Face ID and Touch ID if you are taking your phones to the protests. Keep it in airplane mode and use encrypted apps where possible. Protect yourself.

#3E #NoKings #50501Movement #indivisible #wearetheflood
October 18, 2025 at 1:40 PM
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THIS.
October 18, 2025 at 11:43 AM
Liu’s #caturday debut
October 18, 2025 at 12:27 PM
I love that in an article about AI workslop I find a justification for my existence… https://medium.com/@WeWillNotBeFlattened/have-you-been-workslopped-790681bc539b
September 29, 2025 at 6:39 PM
So they’re sending the TX National Guard to Chicago in the Fall/Winter season?
All respect to the troops, but…have you heard about Napoleon’s march on Moscow? The Chosin Reservoir? Hannibal crossing the Alps?
Just…wondering.
- a former Marine infantry living in Wisconsin
September 4, 2025 at 2:44 PM
been enjoying the “We Need Your Art” book by @amiemcnee (hoping that’s the right account). Been writing down quite a few quotes in my commonplace book, but this one I felt like doing “in her style” (but using procreate for iPad).
August 29, 2025 at 3:59 PM
Hmmm…I’ve been trying the “waiting somewhere? Pull out your notebook and pen instead of your phone!” hack. It worked a little too well here at the VA. I was so busy making ranked lists and sketches of shelf layouts that I didn’t realize my PT hadn’t come to get me for […]

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August 21, 2025 at 11:13 PM
Writing a piece about the dangers of whiteboards as an organizational solution...very proud of the meta-meme I created around it.
August 11, 2025 at 3:54 PM
Went down a little rabbit hole on a random generator and made an online version of a randomized morning routine list: no executive function needed, random seeds from a list of things that (for me) will definitely give me a good morning: http://perchance.org/automorningroutine . Hoping to add […]
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August 4, 2025 at 2:46 PM
Love this meta self-referential snarky footnote: “Neurodivergent time is another alternative, but this hexasyllabic mouthful just doesn’t flow of the tongue. Also, I am an academic who enjoys unnecessarily fancy words like kakokairos. This pleasure does not derive from reinforcing ableist […]
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July 31, 2025 at 2:25 PM
Enjoying reading a paper on “kakokairos” time relating to autism, learning about “R. Williams’s (2019) statement that “there is no such thing as a neurotypical person. Only someone acting in service of neurotypical ideals.” My aim here is not to establish a binary between “good” autistics and […]
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July 31, 2025 at 2:14 PM
https://youtu.be/R4JM5c5TSS8?si=rKPo_ruigs9LBrda&t=118 The person I want to be in any art gallery.
July 23, 2025 at 2:01 PM
Working on some ideas for a #handlettering for a friend. Fun to just spend some time stroking the chaos (WorstEuphemismEver)
July 15, 2025 at 2:00 AM
"Artificial intelligence" should be removed from our collective vocabularies.
As a former computational linguist - turned conceptual artist pointed out to me, it’s an LLM, dammit. Or “synthetic text.”
It’s not intelligent, nor are the words it generates “artificial” — they are stolen from […]
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July 11, 2025 at 10:53 AM
Had some fun making notebooks and assorted stationery at @thebodgery last night. #maker
July 9, 2025 at 1:49 AM
My youngest daughter wanted to give me a sweet Father’s Day message: “Dad, I really respect the work you’ve done in kink and sex education. You’ve broadened the world where it was getting narrower, and you’ve helped me feel safe about just being myself.”
Then she added, “…because no matter how […]
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June 17, 2025 at 12:34 AM
https://graymiller.medium.com/made-by-humans-for-humans-8d7f65f200cb?sk=c6d08e64313d356a582b682ae9a1a611 Some thoughts on moving away from the “AI is going to take over our jobs!” And more on the “OK, what can I bring to the table that is uniquely human?”
Made By Humans For Humans
In the AI jobocalypse, what unique qualities can we bring to the table?
graymiller.medium.com
June 15, 2025 at 5:18 PM