But, if sexy fun times feel like a chore then I find some other outlet to enjoy or I take the hint and get some rest.

It happens even to gooners. Real life, health, and adult responsibilities can interfere and take priority.

And sometimes, we just don't feel up to it.

Sometimes, I do "force" myself to try to get in the mood. I know I feel better after. But, if I know it is exhaustion or health, I take the break.

Awe shucks.

It's funny that you think denial or chastity will fix that. It's likely to make it worse.

Your level of horny will skyrocket. You'll explore other methods of self pleasure that leave you even more wrecked.

So yes, you should be locked up!

Only if you let me do it with my mouth😉

I think a big factor is also online retail. Shopping online lacks human interaction. And it offers near instant gratification. In most cases, if there is a problem with the order, they just roll over and process a refund and return.

There is little to no pushback on online shoppers.

I was fortunate to have good managers. And, I do see them out there. Managers and small business owners who stand up for their employees publicly get my respect and my business!