In a closed door community space it's easier believe everyone knows what they are there for but when you start to involve the cashier at a coffee shop or the staff at a hotel or the employees at an amusement park I start to feel a bit iffy about it. I don't see this a lot but I do see it some.
October 1, 2025 at 1:11 PM
In a closed door community space it's easier believe everyone knows what they are there for but when you start to involve the cashier at a coffee shop or the staff at a hotel or the employees at an amusement park I start to feel a bit iffy about it. I don't see this a lot but I do see it some.
Some of it has to do with the way I view consent, especially around kinks. Once something is moved to a public space in my mind anyone who witnesses it or engages with it is now participating. If they didn't consent to being part of the scene, so to speak, that's dub-con, at best, non-con at worst.
October 1, 2025 at 1:07 PM
Some of it has to do with the way I view consent, especially around kinks. Once something is moved to a public space in my mind anyone who witnesses it or engages with it is now participating. If they didn't consent to being part of the scene, so to speak, that's dub-con, at best, non-con at worst.
I've been feeling a lot of imposter syndrome about my existence in ABDL spaces and your commentary really hits on the why for me.
Like Plaid Pony I'm open in private, but I'm definitely not going to D*sney parks in full little mode (I've seen folks do so) or having play dates in public.
October 1, 2025 at 1:02 PM
I've been feeling a lot of imposter syndrome about my existence in ABDL spaces and your commentary really hits on the why for me.
Like Plaid Pony I'm open in private, but I'm definitely not going to D*sney parks in full little mode (I've seen folks do so) or having play dates in public.