it feels very 'all this over him falling out with me over a d&d game' but apparently he was a controlling ultimatum-giver to my sister for a while anyway. I know im neither the cause or catalyst, and that he's responsible for his own behaviour and did all this. but i feel blame still

my sister wants me to be more involved and thinks I don't see them enough. its their marriage and custody so nobodies asked me but personally, I don't want to see the kids anyway. they're violent shites like their father. I just want my sister to be ok. but her ex husband really hates me

and its because I dated a younger guy for a few months and joked i dumped him for turning 20 when he moved to change careers, 'im not safe' so the kids can't see me. whatever man. clutch at some straws

no change in situation :(

things are still the same, legal action is being looked into. idk, like i really don't know wtf is going on. its wild

nobody seems to be saying that he's clearly having a mental episode though, but I've never seen someone be so cruel. I don't get how he can walk this back

hes fully off the deep end. its gonna be harder and harder to walk any of this stuff back. what the fuck

begs the question if im a lightning rod or a catalyst though. my poor sister :(

on fourth anniversary of our mum's death too, you love to see it. can you wonder I want a break from this shit

deciding how other people feel and getting mad about it despite being completely wrong is three generations deep in this shit minimum. shes made me cry more than her shitty husband did last week ngl. I thought we were cool and she was holding so much bullshit against me

'our families small, there's not many of us left, and I want to see you more' ok try being more welcoming. there's a reason people fuck off, people kill themselves and people choose not to breed in this family- we're all terminally fucked up. everyone thinks they have monopoly on feelings

since he's decided to actually fall out with me, I'm not welcome there at all. idk maybe address that? instead of being mad at me for stuff she's invented in her head, she should be mad at him. they both deserve each other.

I am there once a week and see them three times a week. I often feed the youngest kid. their house is full of crosses that creep me out. nobody offers you tea when you go over. it makes me anxious as hell that I struggle keeping food down there. her husband is a know-it-all and talks down to me.

pickled onion innit

I think what he's sent to my bestie who he doesn't want to alienate is worse honestly, reddit tier shit